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The Black Girl Bravado

118 | You Deserve Better: Avoiding Struggle Love

The Black Girl Bravado

Black Girl Bravado

Health & Fitness

4.92.6K Ratings

🗓️ 29 October 2019

⏱️ 76 minutes

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Summary

An affirmation: I am deserving of a relationship that honors the person I am right now; I am capable of differentiating between a healthy love and a struggle romance. In this episode we discuss the concept of, "Struggle Love." Struggle Love is the idea that a person has to endure pain, struggle and turmoil for the love to be real, worthy and deserving. We chat about the way the struggle love narrative has been packaged and sold to women of color to be acceptable and normalized, and offer a few questions you can ask yourself win efforts to identify you are dealing with a struggle love situation. Article excerpts from: https://medium.com/@arahthequill/struggle-love-is-not-a-badge-of-honor-c7919e88fa6b Support us on Patreon: www.patreon.com/theblackgirlbravado Gem: Soleil Pineapple Mimosa https://www.fresh-mimosa.com/where-to-buy.html Join our Facebook group, "The Black Girl Bravado Podcast Homegirl Hangout" to engage with other likeminded women. Share your thoughts, ideas, business ventures- in a safe space. Feel free to reach out to us!! Visit us at TheBlackGirlBravado.com Twitter.com/BlackGrlBravado Facebook.com/TheBlackGirlBravadoPod Facebook.com/groups/199147677438093 Instagram.com/TheBlackGirlBravadoPod, @frombeetoyou and @heygermaniSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-black-girl-bravado1502/donationsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

This is Germany and this is the Black or Burbato Podcast.

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A motivating and encouraging podcast where we focus on building community amongst

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colorful women alike.

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Join us weekly as we sit down and have candid conversations on various topics and issues surrounding self-care, self-love, health and wellness, spirituality, entrepreneurship, and much more.

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In trust, if we don't have the answers, we'll call on our expert home girls who do.

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Our goal is to create a safe space for growth, inspiration, laughter and love free of judgment in hopes that after

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you listen you're a little more knowledgeable or at least a little more entertained than before.

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It's Home Girl Vibes here.

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Real, raw, and a little funny.

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A lot of fucking funny.

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So thanks for tuning in to the Black Girl Bravado Podcast.

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Let's start the show, cuties.

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To you see your mom,

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say you what you think.

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In color girl, I like to hear the other girl.

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You know what you see the world.

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Pretty color girl.

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Pretty color girl.

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Hey y'all welcome back

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Welcome back sugar plum poops

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I don't know I know I know I'm sorry I need this I be trying to come up with these on the fly so

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You need to like just write down a list and then every no I like it to be authentic okay well

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