We do not want to do this course motivated by fear. Having fear as the foundation of our work

just sets us up for failure because we tend to create that which we focus on. So it's important

that we don't allow fear to dominate our search for love. It's much more effective to say,

I am ready and available for love than it is to say, I can't stand being alone.

If you do this course motivated only by fear, such as an anxiety that you'll never be loved,

you may find that you generate that very thing you fear the most.

That's because it's the thing you are focused on.

And it's the thing that has been the most energy that has the most energy around it.

Hey everybody, welcome back to Shooters Got a Shoot.

I am your co-host, Erica Spira.

And I'm Molly DeMilleur.

And we've got a great episode for you guys this week.

Thank you so much for tuning in.

We are going back to a book we've referenced before called Calling in the One.

We did this forever ago.

Yeah, long time ago, and we were not fans. fans right but now we have a bit of a new outlook on it because you if you've been listening to the patreon by the way you probably already know

mollie revisited the book and has actually found a few helpful things from it yeah so i'm sorry to

take it actually like chapter by chapter and like really do the practices. So for people who don't know, calling in the one, it's a seven week course, basically. It's supposed to attract the love of your life. That's I think a bit of marketing speak. But I have found it to be very, very introspective. And it's really interesting

because it was kind of something that I was trying to do anyways. Like you said, like if you've been

listening to the Patreon, you know, this is kind of like a kick that I've been on of just like

trying to turn over a new leaf, I guess, and just really like look deeper of the things that drive me

in my personal life.

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