My, my job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by hookah crew to get

more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already there

is just to bring it out. This is what compels me to compel them and I will do it by whatever means

to do. Welcome to the Black Girl's Hill podcast, but we talk about healing or intimacy disorders

and resolve trauma and building a healthy relationship with first ourselves and then others.

Every episode we will talk about advice you can apply today to break unhealthy patterns and grow

in your software. I'm Shrinella Shay, love addition coach and trauma specialist. Let's begin.

Hello, hello and welcome to the latest episode of Black Girl's Hill. So I'm recording the intro

to this episode again. I've already recorded the episode, but I'm recording an intro to that

episode now because this episode is about financial complacency and financial abandonment,

being a red flag and potential partners are in your current partner if this is your situation.

In other words, a partner who is going to allow you to struggle to uphold everything yourself and

feel perfectly justified and fine, even though you are managing the mental, physical, financial,

spiritual stress of all that by yourself and almost feeling entitled to, well, that's what

you need to do and how lonely and how painful that that can feel. I'm going to talk about how it

doesn't usually start off or there may be signs at the beginning, but you may not catch it and

just really wanting to help them and where this is your trauma pattern or this is how it shows up

in your partnerships for you to start to see that now because usually it's hidden because the people

who present this way can don't always look like bad people. I think I look like good people who

have good hearts, but don't show up in this way. So, thanks for listening to this week's podcast.

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