And if you consistently find that they're not interested

in any other activity than hooking up at the end of the night,

then you start to get your answer about the lack of progression.

And ideally, we don't get ourselves into that situation

in the first place.

Matthew, we had a wonderful follow up email from Regina,

who emailed in her question last week.

And she says, dear Matthew, oh my god, OMG.

Thank you.

Just to set some context for this, I was a bit worried

that Regina sent in an answer to a question we asked, didn't she?

We asked, what's a vulnerable human moment you've had with someone?

Because we said being vulnerable and being human on a date

is a good thing.

So send us an example of you being vulnerable and human.

And Regina famously on the podcast, she sent in an email

and said, well, I was with someone and I said, I've been dumped three times.

And I sort of went on a little bit of a rant about that

and said, I'm not entirely sure that's what I meant by vulnerability.

And then I was worried, it wasn't either.

I was a bit harsh.

So not harsh in that I was wrong, just harsh in that I just didn't want Regina

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