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On Attachment

#101: Navigating Long-Distance Relationships: Tips & Pitfalls

On Attachment

Stephanie Rigg

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.91.2K Ratings

🗓️ 17 August 2023

⏱️ 22 minutes

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Summary

In today’s episode, we’re exploring long-distance relationships. Despite the old adage of “absence makes the heart grow fonder”, many people tend to really struggle with long-distance relationship structures. 

We’ll cover:

  • Why it’s normal and natural to struggle with long-distance
  • How attachment dynamics can exacerbate long-distance challenges
  • Tips for maintaining connection while apart

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0:00.0

You're listening to On Attachment, a place to learn about how attachment shapes the way we experience relationships and where you'll gain the guidance, knowledge and practical tools to overcome insecurity and build healthy, thriving relationships.

0:19.7

I'm your host, relationship coach Stephanie Rigg,

0:22.8

and I'm really glad you're here. Hey everybody, welcome back to another episode of On Attachment.

0:28.6

In today's episode, we are talking all about navigating long distance relationship. So how we can

0:36.5

best approach a long distance relationship, whether it's for a

0:41.6

period of time or whether it's a longer term arrangement and unpacking some of the ways that

0:49.3

you might alleviate the challenges of that dynamic and also talking about how certain attachment patterns

0:56.2

might play out in a long distance set up. So this is far from a comprehensive deep dive into

1:04.1

what is a very big topic with a lot of nuance and obviously the long distance thing.

1:10.2

You know, there's such a spectrum of ways that

1:13.0

that could look and different circumstances and, you know, different people with different

1:18.3

dynamics and different challenges in their own relationship. So I think long distance can

1:22.8

magnify some of the things that might already be present and may exacerbate some of the challenges that

1:29.1

a relationship is already experiencing. So take what I'm going to share today as a very general

1:37.0

overview. I am going to see if I can get a friend of mine who is an expert in this. She's another

1:43.7

relationship coach and she did long distance herself for a who is an expert in this. She's another relationship coach and she

1:45.0

did long distance herself for a long time and teachers on this. So I might see if I can get her

1:50.1

as a guest on the podcast to go into this in a little more depth and detail. But I'm hoping that

1:55.5

for today we'll be able to cover why long distance can feel challenging and why it makes total sense

2:02.3

that long distance would feel really challenging. And some of the things that you can think

2:07.5

about doing, if that's a situation that you're in, to alleviate some of those stresses.

2:12.9

Before we dive into that, a couple of quick announcements. Next week, I am running a live masterclass on building

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