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A Gay and A NonGay

10 Years Of A Gay and A NonGay: Leaving the Westboro Baptist Church with Megan Phelps-Roper

A Gay and A NonGay

W!ZARD Studios

Mental Health, Sexuality, Comedy, Health & Fitness

4.3632 Ratings

🗓️ 26 November 2025

⏱️ 34 minutes

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This is a re-release celebrating a decade of love and allyship on A Gay And A NonGay. This week we're throwing it back to November 2019... The Westboro Baptist Church, notorious for picketing funerals and spreading homophobia, are one of the most hateful and homophobic Christian organisations in the world. Megan Phelps-Roper was born to hate, joining her family at an anti-Gay picket at just 5 years old. The pain, sadness and shame Megan and her family have caused LGBTQ+ people around the world is difficult to comprehend, but since leaving the church in 2012 Megan has dedicated her life to spreading love, compassion and understanding. In this episode, James and Dan chat to Megan about her journey. This episode contains strong language, offensive ideology and religious rhetoric you may find offensive. Follow A Gay & A NonGay TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@gaynongay⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@gaynongay⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@gaynongay⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@gaynongay⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠gaynongay.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Email Us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠us@gaynongay.com⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hello and welcome to a gay and a non-gay to celebrate our 10th anniversary at the minute we are re-releasing 10 of our favourite episodes over the next few weeks.

0:09.7

Now this one is one of my very, very, very, very favourite episodes.

0:13.1

Same with James as well.

0:14.6

This is with Megan Phelps Roper, formerly of the Westbro-Baptist Church.

0:19.0

This is from November 2019.

0:22.4

I think it was a really formative episode for both of us and for Megan, who really, really enjoy coming on the podcast as

0:27.0

well. So I really hope that you enjoy listening to it as much as we all did having this conversation.

0:32.4

A gay and non-gay is a podcast from James Barr and Dan Hudson. Two unlikely friends take on the world. 99.9% of mankind is headed straight for hell and there's nothing you can do about it. Wait, wait, wait, I'm gay. The elected god says a very small remnant. Yeah? Right. Yeah, of course you are. If you don't repent, if you're engaged in some filthy conduct, you're headed straight for hell and there's nothing you can do about it. Today's episode might be a particularly hard listen. Yes, but if you're interested in the Westborough Baptist Church... Yep, if you're a big fan of the Westboro Baptist Church and their religious vibes. I'm not sure fan is the right terms. If people are a fan of them, this probably isn't necessarily the podcast for them.

1:11.9

Definitely not the right word. I guess I'm just trying to make light of something a bit dark.

1:16.1

Yeah, I'm just finding the whole thing beyond fascinating. Ever since I saw the first Louis Thruhe

1:21.6

documentary about them in 2007. Today we're joined by the Megan Phelps Roper, formerly of the

1:27.1

Westboro Baptist Church. You've

1:28.9

probably heard of the church. They're notorious for picketing funerals with their homophobic signs.

1:33.4

Perhaps they're most famous and one of my favorites. God hates fags. I'm glad that's one of your

1:38.0

favorites. She left the church in 2012 and she just brought out a new book Unfollow, which is a

1:43.5

memoir of loving

1:44.7

and leaving the Westboro Baptist Church. She tells the story of her life growing up in the church

1:48.7

in the most hated family in America. It's an amazing, amazing story. I couldn't put it down. Thanks

1:53.8

so much for joining us, Megan. So happy to be here. Thanks for having me. Welcome to a gay

1:58.1

and a non-gay.

2:07.3

Megan, we've really no idea where to start.

2:09.6

And for me personally as well, it's really difficult because obviously your family and you included in that

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