If you're a stepmom, chances are it's been challenging.

You've experienced emotions that you didn't see coming.

You've felt like you have no control of your life, like you're good enough until you're not.

Maybe you're not on the same page as your partner when it comes to kids and the X.

Maybe you're triggered by the X.

Maybe you feel helpless because you want to protect your partner,

but you're learning that you can't fix what you didn't break.

Stepmoms often struggle to find their place. They find themselves in this place of competition and comparison and resentment and feeling overwhelmed.

I'm not trying to be negative. I hear this from stepmoms every single day. I've also felt this way myself until one day I made

the decision that this was not going to be my life. Chances are you don't want to feel this way either,

but you don't know where to start. That's where I come in. I created a guide for stepmums who are

craving change. It's an audit on your stepfamily life with 16 questions that I think

that every single stepmom should ask themselves. If you answer the questions honestly and give this

audit the time and attention it deserves, it will kickstart change that you're looking for.

You can download it via www.jamy skimcher.com forward slash stepmom audit. When you do, I'll send you the links for some

other free guides too. I've got the secret to improving your stepfamily life and how to co-parent with a

high conflict ex. Again, get your copy at www. jamie scrimger.com forward slash stepmom audit.

Welcome to the kick-ass stepmom podcast. I'm Jamie Scrimger.

Wife, mom, stepmom, life coach, conversation opener, and BS caller.

Seven years ago, I found myself sitting on the bathroom floor with a glass of wine,

bawling my eyes out, wondering what the heck I was thinking, marrying a man with three kids

in her next wife. Don't get me wrong. I was madly in love. The kids were great. But as a 26-year-old

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