067: How to Accept when your Spouse Doesn’t Speak your Love Language

3 in 30 Takeaways for Moms

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🗓️ 12 February 2019

⏱️ 26 minutes

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Summary

Love languages in marriage can be tricky! Do you and your spouse speak the same love language? My husband, Ryan, and I DO NOT. 😝 Today, I’m going to share three things you can do if you’re noticing that your spouse doesn’t speak the same love language as you - especially if you’re finding yourself feeling resentful and frustrated. I hope you find these takeaways helpful! For full show notes, including takeaways, click here. *** Related Episodes like this one on Love Languages in Marriage: Episode 018: Simple Ways to Speak Your Partner’s Love Language // Celeste Davis Episode 058: What Happened to My Sex Drive, and What Can I Do to Get It Back? // Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife Episode 065: 3 Easy Valentines Traditions for the Whole Family // Sarah McKenna ******

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0:00.0	Do you and your spouse speak the same love language?
0:03.6	My husband Ryan and I do not.
0:06.5	I am a words girl.
0:08.2	I love them.
0:09.2	I need them.
0:10.6	Whereas my husband Ryan is a man of few words and he craves quality time.
0:16.6	When we were dating we used to go for long evening runs together under the stars of our
0:20.4	college town and that connection time really boosted our relationship.
0:25.3	I recently said to Ryan, I feel bad about how much I've changed since we got married.
0:30.6	You thought you were marrying a girl who was really active and exercising with you and
0:35.6	that is not at all the way it's turned out.
0:38.9	He thought about that for a second and then he shrugged and said, eh, it's okay.
0:43.7	When we were dating you thought I was good at words of affirmation and when was the last
0:47.8	time I wrote you a love letter.
0:51.4	So it turns out that we both pulled the bait and switch on each other.
0:57.0	Can any of you relate?
0:59.2	This is episode 66 of 3 in 30 takeaways for moms.
1:03.7	How to accept when your spouse doesn't speak your love language.
1:13.7	Welcome to 3 in 30, a podcast for moms who want to create more meaning in motherhood.
1:19.8	Each 30 minute episode will feature 3 doable takeaways for you to try at home with your
1:25.7	family this week.
1:27.7	I'm your host Rachel Nielsen.
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