The Swing Nation - A Sex Positive Swingers Podcast

Send us Fan Mail The Ultimate Guide to Naughty N'awlins | Episode 249 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy are giving listeners the ultimate Naughty N’awlins 101 guide! Whether you’re attending for the very first time or you’re a returning guest looking to make the most of the experience, this episode is packed with helpful tips, personal advice, and insider insight. Dan and Lacy break down everything you need to know before heading to New Orleans in July, including what...

Transcribed - Published: 11 June 2026

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Advice for Trying DP & DVP | Episode 112 In this week’s Tuesday Talks, Dan and Lacy are answering a listener question about exploring the fantasies of DVP and DP. They share their best advice from personal experience, including the importance of communication, comfort, chemistry, and making sure everyone involved is relaxed and on the same page. They also talk about why performance anxiety can make these experiences harder to pull off, especially when...

Transcribed - Published: 9 June 2026

Send us Fan Mail Splash Houston Recap: Dj Booths, Pool Parties, and Dance Floors | Episode 248 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy are recapping their weekend at Splash Houston — and it was one for the books! Dan spent a big part of the weekend behind the DJ booth for his first official paid DJ gig, which means he’s officially gone pro! While Dan was busy keeping the party going, Lacy found herself navigating parts of the event solo and feeling a little lost at times — ...

Transcribed - Published: 4 June 2026

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Our Friends Play Without Us...Now What? | Episode 111 In this Tuesday Talks episode, a listener shares that she and her husband have a couple they play with regularly — but when that couple recently played with someone else, she found herself feeling left out, hurt, and unsure how to handle it. Dan and Lacy unpack why these feelings are completely valid, while also explaining that unless there is a polyamorous or exclusive agreement in place, their friends didn...

Transcribed - Published: 2 June 2026

Send us Fan Mail The Sanctuary SLC: Bass Drops, Buffalo & Bad Decisions | Episode 247 In this special bonus episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy recap their unforgettable trip to Salt Lake City, Utah for the latest Swinger Society takeover at The Sanctuary — a non-monogamy-friendly church unlike anything they’ve experienced before. The adventure starts with a massive 30-hour road trip across the country before arriving i...

Transcribed - Published: 28 May 2026

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: How to Make the Move from Chat to Play | Episode 110 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy answer a listener question about one of the most common moments couples face: how do you smoothly transition from normal “get to know you” conversation into play time? Dan and Lacy share their most practical advice for reading the room, building comfort, and remembering that most of the time, every...

Transcribed - Published: 26 May 2026

Send us Fan Mail Bliss Cruise Part 3: Mexico, Mischief and Morning Regrets | Episode 246 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy wrap up their Bliss Cruise recap with Part 3 — and this final chapter ends on a high note. After a less-than-perfect excursion earlier in the trip, Dan and Lacy head out for another adventure, this time in Mexico, and thankfully, this one delivers. From the beautiful resort-style atmosphere to...

Transcribed - Published: 21 May 2026

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: More Than Skin Deep | Episode 109 In this episode of Tuesday Talks, Dan and Lacy answer a heartfelt listener question from someone preparing for an upcoming swinger cruise while navigating a rare skin condition. The listener wonders how — or even if — they should bring it up with potential play partners and fears it could affect confidence and connection. Dan and Lacy encourage the listener to simply own it with confidence and honesty, reminding them that it’s ...

Transcribed - Published: 19 May 2026

Send us Fan Mail Bliss Cruise Part 2: From Bad Excursions to Backdoor Adventures | Episode 244 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy continue their Bliss Cruise recap with Part 2 of their wild adventure at sea. They kick things off by talking about a beach party excursion from the cruise that, unfortunately, wasn’t quite up to par and left a lot of guests feeling frustrated. But in true Dan and Lacy fashion, they mad...

Transcribed - Published: 14 May 2026

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Finding Your Lifestyle Community & Events | Episode 108 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy dive into a heartfelt listener question during another edition of Tuesday Talks. Lauren calls in to share that she’s been struggling to find a swinger community near her and feels discouraged trying to find where she truly fits in within the lifestyle. Dan and Lacy open up about how common that feeling actually is and remind listeners that findi...

Transcribed - Published: 12 May 2026

Send us Fan Mail Bliss Cruise Part 1: Networking and Naughty Nights | Episode 243 Join Dan and Lacy for Part 1 of their wildest Bliss Cruise recap yet — a trip they jokingly dubbed “The Anal Cruise” after realizing just how much their adventures revolved around butt play this time around. From steamy playroom experiences on the ship to swapping with another couple, they dive into the sexy, chaotic, and hilarious moments that made this cruise unforgettable. But it wasn’t all nonstop play...

Transcribed - Published: 7 May 2026

Send us Fan Mail Behind the Scenes of Bliss Cruise with Cruise Director Malcolm | Bonus Episode In this special bonus episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with Malcolm, the Cruise Director onboard Bliss Cruise — the world’s largest swingers cruise charter. Malcolm shares the story of how he landed one of the most unique jobs in the lifestyle travel industry and what it’s really like helping manage thousands of lifest...

Transcribed - Published: 6 May 2026

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Shots, Safety and STI Risks | Episode 107 In this week’s Tuesday Talks, Dan and Lacy tackle a listener question that a lot of people might be wondering—but aren’t always comfortable asking out loud. The topic? Trimix shots and whether they increase the risk of transmitting HIV or other STIs, especially if there’s bleeding at the injection site. While they’re quick to remind listeners that they’re not medical professionals, Dan and Lacy break it down in a real, ...

Transcribed - Published: 5 May 2026

Send us Fan Mail Once Upon a Time at Secrets Part 2: Poolside Chaos and Party Nights Gone Wild | Episode 242 In part two of their takeover recap, Dan and Lacy are back to break down even more unforgettable moments from their wild week at Secrets Hideaway. From high-energy pool parties and brand-new Motorbunny games turning up the heat, to their mission of meeting and connecting with as many people as possible, the vibes stay electric. Friday night brings a Magic Kingdom twist—but what follows...

Transcribed - Published: 30 April 2026

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: What to Wear and How to Prepare for Your First Club | Episode 106 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering a listener’s question about preparing for their very first club takeover as a married couple. From what to wear to how to feel confident walking in, Lacy shares her go-to fashion advice—including how to leave your hotel or home comfortably (and discreetly) with a lightweight trench coat over y...

Transcribed - Published: 28 April 2026

Send us Fan Mail Once Upon a Time at Secrets Part 1: Drag Shows, Day Drinking and Disney Vibes | Episode 241 In part one of this special recap episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy take listeners inside the Swinger Society takeover at Secrets Hideaway Resort in Kissimmee, Florida. With a playful “Once Upon a Time” theme that brought plenty of Disney-inspired fun to the weekend, they kick things off by sharing what it was like arriving at Secrets, catching the Tuesday night drag sh...

Transcribed - Published: 23 April 2026

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Let's Talk Test Results | Episode 105 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering a listener question about one of the most important — and sometimes awkward — parts of navigating the lifestyle: sharing STI test results. This week, a listener asks whether Dan and Lacy ever play spontaneously without sharing test results first, and what the best wa...

Transcribed - Published: 21 April 2026

Send us Fan Mail Wild Love Theory with Naughty Gym | Episode 240 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with April and Scott from Naughty Gym to talk about their upcoming book release, Wild Love Theory. April and Scott share the story behind how the Wild Love Theory was created, what it really means, and how couples can begin applying it in their own relationships. They dive into the idea that many people slowl...

Transcribed - Published: 16 April 2026

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: First time Hotwife - Clubs or Connection First? | Episode 104 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering a heartfelt question from a listener stepping into the lifestyle for the very first time. After 35 years of marriage, this listener is finally ready to explore her hotwife journey—but isn’t sure where to begin. She shares her desire to c...

Published: 14 April 2026

Send us Fan Mail Send us Fan Mail Inside ENM Matchmaking with Victoria Joseph | Episode 239 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with a truly unique guest — Victoria Joseph, professional matchmaker, dating strategist, and founder of Birds of a Feather Matchmaking. Victoria specializes in connecting people within the ethically non-monogamous, open, poly, and swinger communities — and she’s built a boutique mat...

Transcribed - Published: 9 April 2026

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Left Out in the Lifestyle - When Group Dynamics Change | Episode 103 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle. This week, a listener writes in with something that hits a little deeper — he’s starting to feel left out of his group dynamic. He’s being invited to play less and less, and he’s left w...

Transcribed - Published: 7 April 2026

Send us Fan Mail Secrets Hideaway Survival Guide: Pack, Play & Connect | Episode 238 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy break down everything you need to know before your first trip to Secrets Hideaway Resort. With the next Swinger Society takeover just weeks away, they’re here to make sure you show up confident, prepared, and ready to have an unforgettable experience. From what to wear and what to pack, to unde...

Transcribed - Published: 2 April 2026

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Bare Necessities, A Real Conversation on Ditching Condoms in the Lifestyle | Episode 102 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle. This week, a listener writes in with a question a lot of couples are thinking but not asking out loud — when is it actually okay to go bare in the lifestyle, and ho...

Transcribed - Published: 31 March 2026

Send us Fan Mail Electric Pleasures Atlanta: Beats, Bodies & Bad Decisions | Episode 237 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy recap their recent Electric Pleasures Alternative Lifestyle Festival in Atlanta, Georgia — and it was nothing short of electric. From kandi-making meet and greets that brought everyone together, to non-stop DJs spinning everything from dance pop to dubstep, the energy stayed high all weeken...

Transcribed - Published: 26 March 2026

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Play, Pause or Pass? Periods in the Lifestyle | Episode 101 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle. This week, they get a call from Chris, who’s dealing with a frustrating but very real situation — what happens when your period shows up right before a big lifestyle event? He wants to know how ...

Transcribed - Published: 24 March 2026

Send us Fan Mail Love, Sex & Society with Katie Bogen | Episode 236 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with Katherine (Katie) Bogen — a doctoral candidate in clinical psychology, scholar-activist with over 500K followers, and the debut author of Queering Him. Together, they dive into her new book and unpack the social dynamics between monogamy and the lifestyle. Katie shares her perspective on how cultu...

Transcribed - Published: 19 March 2026

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: AI Catfishing, Fake Abs & Real-Life Letdowns | Episode 100 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle. This week, they hear from a frustrated fan who’s fed up with what they’re calling the catfishing epidemic — and it’s only getting worse with AI. From flawless skin, perfect outfits, and six-p...

Transcribed - Published: 17 March 2026

Send us Fan Mail Bliss Cruise Part 2: Glow Night, Jungle Orgies & a Very Sick Dan | Episode 235 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy recap Part 2 of their Bliss Cruise adventure, picking up right where last week’s story left off. After finishing a wild beach party, the crew heads back to the ship where Lacy and Daphne attend a male review while Dan and Mike hit the casino. The night ends quietly for Dan and Lacy a...

Transcribed - Published: 12 March 2026

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: The BYOB Guide to Swinger Parties | Episode 99 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle. This week, they hear from a listener who is preparing to attend a BYOB lifestyle event and has a lot of practical questions. What kind of drinks should you bring? Do you need a bag to carry them? Are you exp...

Transcribed - Published: 10 March 2026

Send us Fan Mail Bliss Cruise Recap Part 1: Rocking the Boat | Episode 234 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy recap Part 1 of their latest adventure aboard the legendary Bliss Cruise. The trip kicks off in Ft. Lauderdale with a high-energy pre-party hosted by Topless Travel before everyone sets sail for a week at sea with thousands of lifestyle couples. Day 1’s theme? Pirates. But before the real fun could beg...

Transcribed - Published: 5 March 2026

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Hand Signals, Code Words & Playtime Communication | Episode 98 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks — answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle. This week, they respond to a message from a listener who shares that she and her husband use hand signals during play to communicate. One signal means “I’m having fun,” and another means...

Transcribed - Published: 3 March 2026

Send us Fan Mail Sensitive Situations: Allergies & Intimacy with Dr. Stoehr | Episode 233 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with Dr. Stoehr, a gynecologist specializing in pelvic and sexual pain and sexual dysfunction. With a strong interest in the intersection of medicine and alternative sexual lifestyle communities, she brings both professional expertise and an open-minded perspective to the co...

Transcribed - Published: 26 February 2026

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Why Is There Always Food at Sex Parties? | Episode 97 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle. This week, they get a call from a listener who leans more toward the BDSM community but also attends lifestyle and kink events. One thing has them puzzled? The food. From elaborate spreads at house pa...

Transcribed - Published: 24 February 2026

Send us Fan Mail Hollywood Hotwife: Behind the Scenes at WIFEY Studios | Episode 232 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy take you inside one of their most unforgettable experiences yet. The duo travels to Los Angeles, California to the studio of WIFEY, a luxurious adult content platform where real hot wife couples step onto a Hollywood-style set to live out their fantasies in a high-end, professionally produced envir...

Transcribed - Published: 19 February 2026

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Cursed in the Lifestyle, When Nobody Can Get It Up | Episode 96 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle. This week, they hear from a listener who feels like she’s cursed. She entered the lifestyle excited and full of energy, but keeps running into the same frustrating problem — multiple potenti...

Transcribed - Published: 17 February 2026

Send us Fan Mail TSN & WIFEY: On set at the WIFEY studio with Jessi & Matt | Episode 231 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy travel to Los Angeles, California to visit the studio of WIFEY — a luxurious adult content platform where real hot wife couples get to live out their fantasies on a Hollywood-style set. They sit down with Jessi and Matt, one of the original WIFEY couples, to talk all things WIFEY and wh...

Transcribed - Published: 12 February 2026

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Don’t Let the Internet Ruin Your Lifestyle Experience | Episode 95 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering real questions from listeners and creators in the lifestyle. This week, they get a message from an anonymous content creator who’s preparing for a local Valentine’s Day lifestyle event but is feeling overwhelmed after being flooded with e...

Transcribed - Published: 10 February 2026

Send us Fan Mail Inside Bliss Cruise: The Man Leading the World’s Largest Swingers Voyage | Episode 230 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with Russell, the new CEO of the world’s largest swingers cruise — Bliss Cruise. Russell shares his incredible journey of over 25 years in the lifestyle, from being one of Bliss Cruise’s very first guests to now stepping into the role of CEO and leading the most iconic b...

Transcribed - Published: 5 February 2026

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Getting the Sex You Want in a Swap | Episode 94 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another round of Tuesday Talks, answering real listener questions. This week, they get a text from an experienced woman in the lifestyle who’s been struggling to communicate what she wants and needs during intimate encounters — and worries that coming across too strong might be hurting her con...

Transcribed - Published: 3 February 2026

Send us Fan Mail The Birth of Electric Pleasures: Music, Madness & Memories | Episode 229 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy recap the very first Electric Pleasures takeover in Gulf Breeze, Florida. They break down what it was really like hosting their first-ever Alternative Lifestyle Music Festival and hotel takeover — from blown breakers and chaotic logistics to room crawls, polar plunges, and unforgettable co...

Transcribed - Published: 29 January 2026

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: The Truth About Throwing Your Own Swinger Party | Episode 93 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another listener-driven Tuesday Talks question — this time from the Hot North Texas Couple. New to the lifestyle, they’ve been to a few house parties and hotel takeovers but walked away feeling underwhelmed. Now they’re considering hosting their own events and want to know what it...

Transcribed - Published: 27 January 2026

Send us Fan Mail Swinging Isn’t What You Think: Busting the Biggest Lifestyle Myths | Episode 228 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy break down Swinger Myths vs. Reality and tackle some of the biggest misconceptions about the lifestyle. They dive into common myths like “everyone has to hook up,” “only certain body types are welcome,” and the idea that you must look or perform a certain way to belong. Dan and Lacy ex...

Transcribed - Published: 22 January 2026

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: When the Camera’s Off — What Our Sex Life Really Looks Like | Episode 92 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another candid Tuesday Talks listener question. This week, they hear from Nikki and Randy from Missouri, a couple who have been in the lifestyle for over 22 years and have successfully balanced their home life with their lifestyle journey. They’re curious how Dan and L...

Transcribed - Published: 20 January 2026

Send us Fan Mail New Year’s Eve Unfiltered: Tears, Tension & Turning It Around | Episode 227 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy recap their wild trip to ALT for the Open Instinct New Year’s Eve Hotel Takeover, sponsored by their brand-new project, Electric Pleasures. They arrive early with Dan handling sound and lighting production to set the vibe, while Lacy wastes no time having her own kind of fun, spending t...

Transcribed - Published: 15 January 2026

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Bush, Bare, or Somewhere in Between? Grooming in the Lifestyle | Episode 91 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks listener question—this time tackling a topic a lot of people wonder about but don’t always ask out loud: body hair in the lifestyle. This week’s text comes from The Sexy Scientists, who are gearing up for their first lifestyle takeover and ...

Transcribed - Published: 13 January 2026

Send us Fan Mail Body Positivity Uncensored — Our 2026 Reset | Episode 226 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down for a real, no-BS conversation about something everyone thinks about but few talk about honestly — body positivity. And spoiler alert: it’s about a whole lot more than a number on a scale. Dan and Lacy break down what body positivity really means to them, exploring how it shows up both physically an...

Transcribed - Published: 8 January 2026

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: How Do You Swing with a Teen at Home? | Episode 90 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another Tuesday Talks listener question. This week, they hear from Kristen, who, along with her partner, is new to the lifestyle and navigating a unique challenge: having a teenager at home. She wants to know how couples can travel, attend clubs, and explore the lifestyle without raising su...

Transcribed - Published: 6 January 2026

Send us Fan Mail The Swing Nation 2025 Recap: Highs, Lows & Everything In Between | Episode 225 In this special New Year’s edition of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated lifestyle podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy take a look back at everything 2025 had to offer. Month by month, they recap the events, trips, takeovers, and unforgettable moments that shaped the year — celebrating the highs, acknowledging the challenges, and reflecting on the lessons learned along th...

Transcribed - Published: 1 January 2026

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Grower, Not a Shower — Cock Confidence in the Lifestyle | Episode 89 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another “Tuesday Talks” listener question — this time from a male listener who’s struggling to connect with women at clubs and resorts. He shares that he feels confident once things progress, but worries he’s being judged too quickly because he’s a grower, not a shower, an...

Transcribed - Published: 30 December 2025

Send us Fan Mail Everything You Need to Know: Before Your First Hotel Takeover | Episode 224 In this special Christmas episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down to talk about a topic that’s especially relevant as we head into a brand-new year: hotel takeovers. With New Year’s being the granddaddy of all swinger hotel takeovers, there’s no better time to break down what these events are really about and how to get the most...

Transcribed - Published: 25 December 2025