Karma & Chaos with Kail Lowry & Becky Hayter

It’s a full circle moment on Karma and Chaos as Kail and Becky finally reconnect after weeks of life doing the absolute most. From baby showers and birthdays to therapy breakthroughs and botox, this episode has everything. Kail opens up about postpartum friendship shifts, feeling overwhelmed hosting her baby shower, and how raising a kid with her sister feels surreal. Becky dives into what it means to love someone who isn’t a good partner, the emotional toll of being the “energy suck,” and the real talk around step-parenting struggles. Plus, they break down the pros and cons of homeschooling, whether people know how miserable they are, and yes; how many chuggas come before choo-choo. As always, it’s a little bit of chaos and a whole lot of heart. For Pride merch head to kaillowry.comTo submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at [email protected] full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The Hayters Thank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors.  BetterHelp: Visit betterhelp.com/KARMA to get 10% off your first month.Hiya: For 50% off their best selling children's vitamins head to hiyahealth.com/KARMA.OPositiv: take proactive care of your vaginal health head to opositiv.com/karmaShady Rays: Head to shadyrays.com with code Karma for 35% OFF their premium polarized sunglasses. ASPCA: To explore coverage, visit ASPCApetinsurance.com/KARMA.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 13 May 2025

Becky’s in town and chaos ensues; in the camper, at the mall, and on the Harley. From prom suit adventures with Isaac and a Cheesecake Factory feast, to biker gang names, nesting mode, and conversations about love, loss, and legacies—this episode is peak Karma & Chaos. Plus, the duo gets personal about relationships, parenting styles, baby prep, digital memories, and their thoughts on saying “I’m proud of you.” If you’re here for the laughs, feels, and unfiltered friendship, you’re in the right place.The new season of For The Hayter is out now! Subscribe to listen!To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at [email protected] full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 To support the show check out our sponsors!BetterHelp: Visit betterhelp.com/KARMA to get 10% off your first month.HERS: start your free online visit today at forhers.com/karmaTempo: Tempo is offering our listeners 60% your first box! Go to tempomeals.com/karmaStrong Cell: Go to strongcell.com and insert code (Karma with a K) to get 20% off.Everyday Dose: Get 45% off your first subscription order of 30-servings of Coffee+ or Bold+ You’ll also receive a starter kit with over $100 in free gifts including a rechargeable frother and gunmetal serving spoon by going to everydaydose.com/KARMA or entering KARMA at checkout. You’ll also get FREE gifts throughout the year!Sitter City: Go to sittercity.com and take the guesswork out of finding care. Breathe easier knowing your kids are in good hands. Visit sittercity.com today.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 6 May 2025

In this chaotic and hilarious episode, Kail and Becky dive into wild listener questions, deep confessions, and totally unhinged scenarios. From debating if bald people need hairnets at restaurants to choosing between cheetoh dust or honey fingers, nothing is off-limits. They reveal their funniest truth-serum confessions; including fart mishaps, shitting in the woods, and awkward moments during sex. The conversation takes a turn into fake death plans, on-brand crimes like breaking and entering, stealing street signs, and even plotting which ex’s house they’d infest with cockroaches. It's the chaos you have come to know and love. To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at [email protected] full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersTo keep up with Kail subscribe to her newsletter at kaillowry.comThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors!OPositiv: take proactive care of your vaginal health head to opositiv.com/karmaQuince: Go to quince.com/karma for free shipping on your orderand 365-day returns. Lume: Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with Lume Deodorant and get 15% off with promo code KARMA at LumeDeodorant.com.Skims: Check out the SKIMS Ultimate Bra Collection and more at skims.com After you place your order, be sure to let them know we sent you! Be sure to select our show in the dropdown menu that follows.Strong Cell: Go to Strong Cell and insert code KARMA to get 20% off. Sitter City: Go to sittercity.com and take the guesswork out of finding care. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 29 April 2025

Hey Karmaroos, it’s Becky!I am SO excited to share that For The Hayters is officially back next week with Season 3 - dropping Monday, May 5th.This season is raw, real, and honestly… some of the most powerful conversations I’ve ever had. We’re talking about postpartum depression, fertility, illness, heartbreak, healing, and what it means to start over.So if you’re into deep, unfiltered stories that hit you right in the gut—in the best way - go subscribe to For The Hayters.New episodes every Monday. I can’t wait for you to hear it!Follow Becky at hayter25 See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 28 April 2025

This week Kail and Becky go from grammar gripes to gut-wrenching truths in the span of a single conversation. What starts as a debate over phrases like “taken aback” and “try and” quickly spirals the chaos you know and love.Expect laughter, self-reflection, and maybe a tear or two—because sometimes healing sounds a lot like a conversation between two friends at the edge of a spiral.To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at [email protected] full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersTo support the show please check out our sponsors!Shopify: to sign up for your one dollar a month trial period head to shopify.com/karma Shady Rays: Head to shadyrays.com with code Karma for 35% OFF their premium polarized sunglasses. ASPCA: To explore coverage, visit ASPCApetinsurance.com/KARMA.Up First: Listen now to the Up First podcast from NPR.Sitter City: Go to Sittercity.com and take the guesswork out of finding care.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 22 April 2025

This week Kail is asking the tough questions right off the bat; how are YOU spicing up your life? Becky is battling the bears in her backyard and Kail can't seem to understand why Becky is so upset, in fact she's quite jealous. The topic of ghosts gets brought up and the only ghosts Kail believes in are the ghosts of exes past. Later in the episode Kail and Becky finally answer one of your Is It Karma or Is It Chaso submissions and the ladies aren't sure on this one!To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at [email protected] For full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The Hayters To support the show please check out our sponsors!Hiya: For 50% off their best selling children's vitamins head to hiyahealth.com/KARMA.OPositiv: take proactive care of your vaginal health head to opositiv.com/karmaHERS: start your free online visit today at forhers.com/karmaTempo: Tempo is offering our listeners 60% your first box! Go to tempomeals.com/karmaLume: Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with Lume Deodorant and get 15% off with promo code KARMA at LumeDeodorant.com.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 15 April 2025

Transcribed - Published: 8 April 2025

This week Kail and Becky are coming to you from NYC. They updated us on the week they spent together. With Becky stepping into mommy duties and Kail expanding her businesses and her driveway there is a ton to catch up on. This week the ladies are joined by a live studio audience making for a really chaotic and fun time. There is plenty of chaos in this episode! For full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at [email protected] Becky at instagram.com/hayter25 and subscribe to For The Hayters To keep up with Kail subscribe to her newsletter at kaillowry.comTo support the show please check out our sponsors!BetterHelp: Visit betterhelp.com/KARMA to get 10% off your first month.Happy Mammoth: For a limited time, you can get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the co de KARMA at checkout.Shady Rays: Head to shadyrays.com with code Karma for 35% OFF their premium polarized sunglasses. ASPCA: To explore coverage, visit ASPCApetinsurance.com/KARMA.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 1 April 2025

This week Kail and Becky are sharing some potentially big life updates. Becky may be convinced to do something she never considered and the Lowry farm just keeps on growing! Becky gives us a look into how baby Becks is cooking and we couldn't be more excited. Join us for all the Karma and the Chaos! For full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry To submit an Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at [email protected] Becky at instagram.com/hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersTo stay up to date on Kail and The Chaos subscribe to her newsletter at kaillowry.comTo support the show please check out our sponsors!BetterHelp: Visit betterhelp.com/KARMA to get 10% off your first month.OPositiv: take proactive care of your vaginal health head to opositiv.com/karmaHERS: start your free online visit today at forhers.com/karmaTempo: Tempo is offering our listeners 60% your first box! Go to tempomeals.com/karmaUp First: Listen now to the Up First podcast from NPR. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 25 March 2025

This week Kail and Becky discuss Kail's Birthday trip with Elijah; their first time away without the kids. Becky talks about her worries bringing baby Becks into a not so tolerant world diving into how to even begin navigating and proccessing that. Becky asks a question later in the episode that really gets the girls reflecting on their growth. Follow Becky at instagram.com/hayter25 and subscribe to For The Hayters For full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry  To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at [email protected] To support the show please check out our sponsors! SKIMS: Shop SKIMS best intimates including the Fits Everybody Collection and more at SKIMS.com and SKIM S stores After you place your order, be sure to let them know we sent you! Select podcast in the survey and be sure to select our show in the dropdown menu that follows. Better Help: This show is sponsored by Better Help. Visit betterhelp.com/KARMA to get 10% off your first month. HappyMammoth: For a limited time, you can get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the co de KARMA at checkout. Quince: Go to quince.com/karma for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Shopify: to sign up for your one dollar a month trial period head to shopify.com/karma  ASPCA: To explore coverage head to aspcapetinsurance.com/karma

Transcribed - Published: 18 March 2025

Listen in to Adrienne, the founder of WellBe, talk about her path to becoming a patient advocate to empower people in their health journey. What lead her there and her personal life experiences with Lyme Disease. For more, visit - GetWellBe.com To hear the full episode visit For The Hayters on Spotify or Apple Podcasts  Share your story at forthehayters.com Follow us on Instagram and Tiktok @forthehayters

Transcribed - Published: 17 March 2025

This week Kail & Becky explore the complexities of rekindling friendships, particularly in the public eye, and the emotional nuances involved in navigating personal relationships. They discuss the impact of public perception on friendships and how Kail is in quite a unique circumstance in life when it comes to friendships and the question; is it worth it to rekindle a friendship? Later in the episode we hear from Leah about baby Beck's progress! The ladies don't have an Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos for you this week's because they need your write ins! Email the ladies at [email protected] Follow Becky at instagram.com/hayter25 and subscribe to For The Hayters  To keep up with Kail subscribe to her newsletter at kaillowry.com For full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry  To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at [email protected] To support the show please check out our sponsors! BetterHelp: Visit betterhelp.com/KARMA to get 10% off your first month. Hiya: For 50% off their best selling children's vitamins head to hiyahealth.com/KARMA. OPositiv: take proactive care of your vaginal health head to opositiv.com/karma Lume: Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with Lume Deodorant and get 15% off with promo code KARMA at LumeDeodorant.com. Up First: Listen now to the Up First podcast from NPR.  

Transcribed - Published: 11 March 2025

Listen in to hear Christina talk about her journey with finding her purpose in life. She talks about her path that lead to helping others, the decisions that she needed to make to allow her to get there, and the structure behind being a Spiritual Coach. To hear the full episode visit For The Hayters on Spotify or Apple Podcasts  Share your story at forthehayters.com Follow us on Instagram and Tiktok @forthehayters

Transcribed - Published: 10 March 2025

This week Kail & Becky are testing their knowledge and seeing if they are indeed smarter than a fifth grader. Later in the episode the ladies discuss fiances in a realtionship and all the different ways couples split them. This leads into a conversation about wether or not college is neccessary and is it really all about WHO you know vs WHAT you know.  Follow Becky at instagram.com/hayter25 and subscribe to For The Hayters To keep up with Kail subscribe to her newsletter at kaillowry.com To submit Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos stories email us at [email protected] To support the show please check out our sponsors! BetterHelp: Visit betterhelp.com/KARMA to get 10% off your first month. HappyMammoth: For a limited time, you can get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the co de KARMA at checkout. HERS: start your free online visit today at forhers.com/karma Tempo: Tempo is offering our listeners 60% your first box! Go to tempomeals.com/karma  

Transcribed - Published: 4 March 2025

Listen to Christina talk about her journey with anxiety. She talks about when it started, how it changed her life, and how she takes back control. To hear the full episode visit For The Hayters on Spotify or Apple Podcasts  Share your story at forthehayters.com Follow us on Instagram and Tiktok @forthehayters

Transcribed - Published: 3 March 2025

This week Kail and Becky are reading your comments and some are just plain diabolical. The ladies are also celebrating Becky’s recent credit milestone! This week’s Is It Karma or Is It Chaos submission leads the ladies to wonder; is it ever okay to judge a mom? Follow Becky at instagram.com/hayter25 and subscribe to https://open.spotify.com/show/4893Pyndds0k20NJnhAn67?si=71fe60a0aeeb4884 To keep up with Kail subscribe to her newsletter at kaillowry.com  To join Becky for the Onyx Storm Live Book Club 2/28 at 7:30 pm head to patreon.com/kaillowry  To support the show please check out our sponsors! SKIMS: Shop SKIMS best intimates including the Fits Everybody Collection and more at SKIMS.com and SKIMS stores after you place your order, be sure to let them know we sent you! Select podcast in the survey and be sure to select our show in the dropdown menu that follows. Tempo: Tempo is offering our listeners 60% your first box! Go to tempomeals.com/karma! Quince: Go to quince.com/karma for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. For quick digestible news listen to NPR's UP First Podcast.

Transcribed - Published: 25 February 2025

Listen in to James talk about his journey with weight loss. The mental take it took on his childhood, and how he takes control today. To hear the full episode visit For The Hayters on Spotify or Apple Podcasts  Share your story at forthehayters.com Follow us on Instagram and Tiktok @forthehayters Listen to season 1 of For The Hayters - https://www.podcastone.com/pd/For-The-Hayters

Transcribed - Published: 24 February 2025

This week the girls are coming to you from NYC and this might be the most unhinged episode yet! We kick off the episode with Kail sharing a very special gift with Becky. On a little more of a serious note Becky talks about working through how she will do the "taking your younger self out for coffee" trend and she gives us an update on what life post birth looks like for her and Leah. Don't worry though things don't stay serious for too long with Kail sharing her new commercial idea!  Follow Becky at instagram.com/hayter25 and subscribe to For The Hayters  To keep up with Kail subscribe to her newsletter at kaillowry.com  To join Becky for the Onyx Storm Live Book Club 2/28 at 7:30 pm head to patreon.com/kaillowry  To support the show please check out our sponsors! Happy Mammoth: For a limited time, you can get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the cod e KARMA at checkout. Shopify: to sign up for your one dollar a month trial period head to shopify.com/karma  Branch Basics: Right now, our listeners get 15% off the Premium Starter Kit by using code Karma at BranchBasics.com. 

Transcribed - Published: 18 February 2025

Listen in as AJ talks about his struggle with chronic pain. The way that his daily life and future goals had to be altered after an injury sustained from a car accident. To hear the full episode visit For The Hayters on Spotify or Apple Podcasts  Share your story at forthehayters.com Follow us on Instagram and Tiktok @forthehayters Listen to season 1 of For The Hayters - https://www.podcastone.com/pd/For-The-Hayters

Transcribed - Published: 17 February 2025

This week Kail and Becky are in a silly goofy mood and amongst the giggles Kail shares some news with Becky that leaves her speechless! Becky talks about her and Leah's discussions about what life looks like after baby Becks arrives. Kail is ready to fight everyone including a kangaroo? There's something for everyone in this week's episode! Follow Becky at instagram.com/hayter25 and subscribe to For The Hayters  To keep up with Kail subscribe to her newsletter at kaillowry.com  To join Becky for the Onyx Storm Live Book Club 2/10 at 7:30 pm head to patreon.com/kaillowry  To support the show please check out our sponsors! BetterHelp: Visit betterhelp.com/KARMA to get 10% off your f irst month. Hiya: For 50% off their best selling children's vitamins head to hiyahealth.com/KARMA.  OPositiv: take proactive care of your vaginal health head to opositiv.com/karma  HERS: start your free online visit today at forhers.com/karma  Tempo: for 60% off your first box head to tempomeals.com/karma 

Transcribed - Published: 11 February 2025

Listen in as Jess & Devin talk about their reasons for starting DIY breakups. From canceled weddings, engagements, and dealing with societal pressures of what you should do, rather than what you want. To hear the full episode visit For The Hayters on Spotify or Apple Podcasts  Share your story at forthehayters.com Follow us on Instagram and Tiktok @forthehayters Listen to season 1 of For The Hayters - https://www.podcastone.com/pd/For-The-Hayters

Transcribed - Published: 10 February 2025

This week Kail and Becky are back; catching up after a little time apart. The ladies discuss the challenges Kail faces as her family continues to grow, like tackling dentist appointments. Becky talks about celebrating her dad's birthday for the first time since he passed and how hard that was on her, more so than she expected. To end the episode on a light note the ladies go over their anti-bucket lists, things they would NEVER do. For the list of books Kail mentions head here Children Books List   To keep up with Becky head to beckyhayter.com and subscribe to For The Hayters  As always to keep up with Kail check out kaillowry.com and subscribe to her newsletter. Thank you for supporting our sponsors! SKIMS: Shop SKIMS best intimates including the Fits Everybody Collection and more at SKIMS.com and SKIM S stores After you place your order, be sure to let them know we sent you! Select podcast in the survey and be sure to select our show in the dropdown menu that follows. BetterHelp: Visit betterhelp.com/KARMA to get 10% off your firs t month. HappyMammoth: For a limited time, you can get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the co de KARMA at checkout. Draft Kings: New players can play five bucks to get a spin on the mystery wheel for a shot at up to 2k in Casino Credits! Download the app and sign up with code KARMA

Transcribed - Published: 4 February 2025

Listen in as Shawna talks about her experience being a surrogate and the path that led her there. A true selfless act with the happiest of endings. To hear the full episode visit For The Hayters on Spotify or Apple Podcasts  Share your story at forthehayters.com Follow us on Instagram and Tiktok @forthehayters Listen to season 1 of For The Hayters - https://www.podcastone.com/pd/For-The-Hayters

Transcribed - Published: 3 February 2025

This week Kail and Becky are answering your questions about sports as a mom and a coach! The ladies give insight into how to manage schedules and Becky's perspective as a coach. The new segment Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos starts this week and Kail and Becky want to know if you think the listener got her karma or her chaos! Let them know how you felt about this episode by joining the facebook group! Check out Becky on IG @hayter25 and her blog on beckyhayter.com. As always, keep up to date with Kail by checking out kaillowry.com & subscribe to the newsletter! Thank you for supporting our sponsors! Branch Basics: Right now, ourl isteners get 15% off their entire order by using code Karma at BranchBasics.com. O Positiv: Take proactive care of your vaginal health and head to OPositiv.com/KARMA  or enter KARMA at checkout for 25% off your first purchase. Draft Kings: New players can play five bucks to get a spin on the mystery wheel for a shot at up to TWO THOUSAND in Casino Credits! Download the app and sign up with code KARMA.  

Transcribed - Published: 28 January 2025

Listen as Josh recounts his journey through addiction, his battle to recovery and finds success in the real estate world. To hear the full episode go to: https://www.podcastone.com/pd/For-The-Hayters Share your story at forthehayters.com Follow us on Instagram and Tiktok @forthehayters Listen to season 1 of For The Hayters - https://www.podcastone.com/pd/For-The-Hayters

Transcribed - Published: 27 January 2025

This week Kail and Becky are catching up in NYC! We get some insight into Kail's latest business idea, Becky talks about her most recent podcast appearance and the question she was asked that left her guessing. Kail and Becky ponder over how Karma actually works, is it selective to each person or are there set standards kama abides by? Check out Becky on IG @hayter25 and don't foret to listen to For The Hayters here!   As always, keep up to date with Kail by checking out kaillowry.com & subscribe to the newsletter!  Thank you for supporting our sponsors! Happy Mammoth: Get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com using code KARMA at checkout  SKIMS: Check out the Fits Everybody Collection at https:/www.skims.com/karma #skimspartner  Shopify: Sign up for your $1/month trial period at Shopify.com/karma HERS: Start your intial free online visit today at forhers.com/karma  Zocdoc: Stop putting off those doctor appointments and go to zocdoc.com.karma to find and ins tantly book a top rated doctor today!  

Transcribed - Published: 21 January 2025

They say what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Kayla Struck would probably agree. After a life-threatening car crash robbed the 23-year old of function in her dominant arm, Kayla is now learning how to live as a partly paralyzed survivor - teaching herself how to perform the simplest of everyday tasks all over again. But with a refined approach comes determination, strength, and character. Now, Kayla shares the story of not just her accident - but her recovery - with 'For the Hayters,' reminding us all that we can survive anything, and imploring everyone to lend a hand to those who may need one. (S2|EP2) To listen to season 1 of For The Hayters: https://www.podcastone.com/pd/For-The-Hayters Check out our website and share your story! https://www.forthehayters.com/ Follow us on Instagram! @forthehayters 

Transcribed - Published: 20 January 2025

With Kail trying to find herself she is exploring what style she thinks best suites her and Becky doesn't agree. The ladies discuss the difference in Trauma Bonds and Trauma Bonding. Talking to your friends is hard but Becky brings up why you need to and maybe she has to take her own advice too. Becky went through a period of lost memories when her and Kail weren't friends and she is still looking for answers. Check out Becky on IG @hayter25 and her blog on beckyhayter.com As always, keep up to date with Kail by checking out kaillowry.com & subscribe to the newsletter! Thank you for supporting our sponsors! BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KARMA Shopify: Sign up for your $1/month trial period at Shopify.com/karma Quince: Upgrade your closet this year without the upgraded price tag. Go to Quince.com/karma Hiya: Receive 50% off your first order. To claim this deal you must go to hiyahealth.com/KARMA. Acorns: Ready to help your kids learn the value of money? Just head to acornsearly.com/kail

Transcribed - Published: 14 January 2025

They say it’s necessary to have thick skin; for Fatima, the expression is especially true. Having battled a lifetime of severe eczema, this young mother has tried everything to fight her way through debilitating discomfort. After finding a topical steroid that seemed to cure all, Fatima shares with us the devastating side effects she experienced coming off of it. For her, shedding her skin also meant shedding light on the all-too-real Topical Steroid Withdrawal (TSW). Today, though Fatima is still healing from her condition, she sits down with Becky and Laura to share the active choices that have helped her find comfort in her own skin. (S2|E1) Check out our website and share your story! https://www.forthehayters.com/ Follow us on Instagram, Twitter and Facebook! @forthehayters

Transcribed - Published: 13 January 2025

Kail and Becky start the new year with some body changes and goals. Kail talks a little about her cosmetic surgery. Becky had a breakdown this past weekend and touches on the what led up to it being triggered. An interesting topic about partners not needing to be productive at the same time brings to light a recent incident with Kail and Elijah.  Check out Becky on IG @hayter25 and her blog on beckyhayter.com. As always, keep up to date with Kail by checking out kaillowry.com & subscribe to the newsletter! Thank you for supporting our sponsors! BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KARMA Happy Mammoth: Get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com using code KARMA at checkout SKIMS: Check out the Fits Everybody Collection at https://www.skims.com/karma #skimspartner  Shopify: Sign up for your $1/month trial period at Shopify.com/karma  

Transcribed - Published: 7 January 2025

Becky and Kail go over what their personal and professional goals are for 2025. Becky briefly explains why she was in so much debt in her 20s, and Kail asks is cheating is inevitable in longterm relationships. Check out Becky on IG @hayter25 and her blog on beckyhayter.com. As always, keep up to date with Kail by checking out kaillowry.com & subscribe to the newsletter! Thank you for supporting our sponsors! OPositive: Head to OPositiv.com/KARMA or enter KARMA at checkout for 25% off your first purchase

Transcribed - Published: 30 December 2024

Coming to your from Kail's office aka Kail's house, meaning anything can happen! Becky and Kail talk about celebrating Christmas and how it's evolved (or not) throughout the years. Becky talks about meeting Elijah for the first time and reuniting with Kail's kids. Check out Becky on IG @hayter25 and her blog on beckyhayter.com. As always, keep up to date with Kail by checking out kaillowry.com & subscribe to the newsletter! Thank you for supporting our sponsors! ASPCA Pet Insurance: Explore coverage at aspcapetinsurance.com/BABYMAMA. The ASPCA® is not an insurer and is not engaged in the business of insurance. BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KARMA Happy Mammoth: Get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com using code KARMA at checkout Hers: Start your free online visit today at forhers.com/KARMA Shopify: Sign up for your $1/month trial period at Shopify.com/bmnd 

Transcribed - Published: 23 December 2024

A listener is ready for marriage after being in a long term relationship with two children and a shared bank account but her partner is not on the same page. Kail and Becky give their thoughts on the situation and how they came to wanting marriage themselves. Is there a such thing as being too honest in a relationship? When is it appropriate to cut off a friendship? Becky wants Kail to have a village of trusted people but Kail is reluctant at the idea.  Check out Becky on IG @hayter25 and her blog on beckyhayter.com. As always, keep up to date with Kail by checking out kaillowry.com & subscribe to the newsletter! Thank you for supporting our sponsors! BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KARMA Happy Mammoth: Get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com using code KARMA at checkout Hers: Start your free online visit today at forhers.com/KARMA Skims: Shop SKIMS Holiday Shop at SKIMS.com. Available in styles for women, men, kids and even pets! Zocdoc: Go to Zocdoc.com/KARMA to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today

Transcribed - Published: 17 December 2024

Becky and Kail are joined by Alessandra to talk about the importance of friendships throughout the years and how they have changed. Becky explains the complexities of her male friendships, Alessandra shares how she worked through political differences with a friend, and Kail feels like she's only now learning things she should have learned in her 20s.  Check out Becky on IG @hayter25 and her blog on beckyhayter.com. As always, keep up to date with Kail by checking out kaillowry.com & subscribe to the newsletter! Thank you for supporting our sponsors! BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KARMA Hers: Start your free online visit today at forhers.com/KARMA Hiya: Go to Hiyahealth.com/KARMA to get 50% off your first order OPositive: Head to OPositiv.com/KARMA or enter KARMA at checkout for 25% off your first purchase Qualia: Go to Qualialife.com/KARMA for up to 50% off and use code KARMA at checkout for an additional 15% off

Transcribed - Published: 10 December 2024

Becky expresses her excitement for this new journey with Kail and the podcast, while Kail tries to not fall into old bad habits. Becky was asked what her favorite era of her life was and it starts the conversation around why our 30s end up being better than our 20s. Both listener stories revolve around grief and losing someone and makes Kail cry again. Check out Becky on IG @hayter25 and her blog on beckyhayter.com. As always, keep up to date with Kail by checking out kaillowry.com & subscribe to the newsletter! Thank you for supporting our sponsors! BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KARMA Happy Mammoth: Get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com using code KARMA at checkout Naked Wines: To get 6 bottles of wine for $39.99, head to NakedWines.com/KARMA and use code KARMA for both the code AND PASSWORD. Skims: Shop SKIMS Holiday Shop at SKIMS.com. Available in styles for women, men, kids and even pets! Uncommon Goods: To get 15% off your next gift, go to UncommonGoods.com/KARMA

Transcribed - Published: 3 December 2024

Lindsie joins the show and Becky gets to ask her all the juicy questions about her life. Kail clears up a situation with Becky from five years ago. Lindsie explains why she has yet to unpack some of her past trauma and why she's always felt like the outsider in her own family. Check out Becky on IG @hayter25 and her blog on beckyhayter.com. As always, keep up to date with Kail by checking out kaillowry.com & subscribe to the newsletter! Thank you for supporting our sponsors! BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/MAMADRAMA OPositive: Head to OPositiv.com/KARMA or enter KARMA at checkout for 25% off your first purchase Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at Shopify.com/bmnd Uncommon Goods: To get 15% off your next gift, go to UncommonGoods.com/KARMA

Transcribed - Published: 26 November 2024

[TW: THIS EPISODE CONTAINS MENTIONS OF MISCARRIAGES, LOSS, AND SUICIDE] Becky shares some good news regarding wife Leah and their IVF journey, but also talks about the mixed emotions that has come with it. A listener writes in about losing both her estranged biological father and amazing stepdad in a short amount of time and how she's had to nagivate her grief. Kail doubles down on not wanting her kids to take care of her in old age. Check out Becky on IG @hayter25 and her blog on beckyhayter.com. As always, keep up to date with Kail by checking out kaillowry.com & subscribe to the newsletter! Thank you for supporting our sponsors! Good American: For $50 OFF your first pair use code KARMA at GoodAmerican.com Happy Mammoth: Get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com using code BABYMAMA at checkout SKIMS: Shop SKIMS Holiday Shop at SKIMS.com. Available in styles for women, men, kids and even pets! Qualia: Go to Qualialife.com/BABY for up to 50% off and use code BABY at checkout for an additional 15% off Uncommon Goods: To get 15% off your next gift, go to UncommonGoods.com/KARMA

Transcribed - Published: 19 November 2024

Becky Hayter & wife Leah Paige are trying to expand their family! Becky shares their simultaneous IVF journeys, their unique donor situation, and answers ALL of Kail's questions about the process right down to the egg count and viability. Thank you for supporting our sponsors! Qualia: Go to https://Qualialife.com/BABY for up to 50% off and use code BABY at checkout for an additional 15% off. Hiya: Go to https://hiyahealth.com/BABYMAMA to get 50% off your first order Branch Basics: Get 15% off Branch Basics with the code BMND at https://branchbasics.com/BMND #branchbasicspod BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/MAMADRAMA OPositive: Take proactive care of your vaginal health and head to https://OPositiv.com/BABY or enter BABY at checkout for 25% off your first purchase. To learn more about Becky follow her on IG @hayter25 and check out her blog on beckyhayter.com As always, keep up to date with Kail by checking out kaillowry.com & subscribe to the newsletter!

Transcribed - Published: 12 November 2024

In the premiere episode of Karma & Chaos, Kail and Becky dive into the ups and downs of their long-time friendship and discuss what they learned after years apart. Reflecting on the past five years, they address rumors (are they in love with each other?), clarify the original timing for their podcast’s launch, and share a heartfelt message about their vision for the show.  Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Uncommon Goods: To get 15% off your next gift, go to UNCOMMONGOODS.com/BABYMAMA  BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/MAMADRAMA  Hers: Start your free online visit today at forhers.com/BABYMAMA  Happy Mammoth: For a limited time, you can get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the co de BABYMAMA at checkout. SKIMS: Shop SKIMS Bras at SKIMS.com. Now available in 62 sizes (30A - 46H). After you place your order, select "podcast" in the survey and select our show in the dropdown menu that follows. We hope you loved this first episode, to learn more about Becky follow her on IG @hayter25 and check out her blog on beckyhayter.com As always, keep up to date with Kail by checking out kaillowry.com & subscribe to the newsletter!

Transcribed - Published: 5 November 2024

Welcome to Karma & Chaos! Where we will be diving into life in our 30’s, friendships, raising families and so much more! See you every Tuesday!

Transcribed - Published: 30 October 2024

In this emotional final episode of BMND, Kail and Vee share their decision to close this chapter, offering listeners an inside look at the journey leading to this moment. They discuss how long they’ve grappled with this choice, sharing the challenges, memorable moments, and the incredible connection they’ve built with the Baby Mamas community. Though Baby Mamas No Drama is coming to an end, Kail and Vee hint at exciting new projects and adventures just around the corner. Tune in for an emotional goodbye and a glimpse at what’s next. Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Uncommon Goods: To get 15% off your next gift, go to UNCOMMONGOODS.com/BABYMAMA  BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/MAMADRAMA 

Transcribed - Published: 29 October 2024

Kail and Vee discuss the "three loves theory" and if it fits their experience. Vee finds a toxic facebook group of people trash talking their step kids. Kail reads a story of a controlling husband and explains why women deserve more than they're getting. In Down in the Dm's, a Valentine's Day surprise takes an unexpected turn and a hookup story involving a popular R&B singer. Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Good American: http://www.goodamerican.com/bmnd  Qualia: Go to Qualialife.com/BABY for up to 50% off and use code BABY at checkout for an additional 15% off. For your convenience Qualia Senolytic is also available at select GNC locations near you. Hiya: Receive 50% off your first order. To claim this deal you must go to hiyahealth.com/BABYMAMA  Happy Mammoth: You can get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the code BABYMAMA at checkout Naked Wines: Head to NakedWines.com/BABYMAMAS and put in my code BABYMAMAS for both the code AND password for 6 bottles of wine for JUST $39.99 with shipping included Skims: Shop SKIMS Bras at SKIMS.com. Now available in 62 sizes (30A - 46H). After you place your order, select "podcast" in the survey and select our show in the dropdown menu that follows. As always check out our website http://babymamasnodrama.com and follow our IGs @babymamasnodramapodcast @Kaillowry @veeautifyme

Transcribed - Published: 22 October 2024

This week on BMND, Vee shares highlights from her recent trip to New York City, where she and her family saw Wicked on Broadway, navigating the chaos of Times Square. She reflects on the importance of decompressing after busy trips and opens up about how having her sister nearby has provided much-needed support. Vee discusses her struggles with control, how therapy has helped her cope with trauma responses, and why letting go has been a key part of her personal growth, all while getting excited for Halloween and spooky season. Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Hers: Start your free online visit today at forhers.com/BABYMAMA  BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/MAMADRAMA  As always check out our website  http://babymamasnodrama.com and follow our IGs @babymamasnodramapodcast @Kaillowry @veeautifyme

Transcribed - Published: 15 October 2024

This week on BMND, Kail is joined by her friend Toni, who gives an update on everything that’s happened since their last episode together. Toni shares an update on her stepdaughter's involvement in a throuple, sparking a discussion about non-traditional relationships and the complexity of human impulses. Toni opens up about her nearly 20-year marriage, separation, and a brief journey into a same-sex relationship. They also explore the unorthodox dynamic of cohabitating with both her ex-husband and her current partner. Toni's Instagram: www.instagram.com/tonimarie724 Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Skims: Shop SKIMS Bras at SKIMS.com. Now available in 62 sizes (30A - 46H). After you place your order, select "podcast" in the survey and select our show in the dropdown menu that follows. Happy Mammoth: For a limited time, you can get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the code BABYMAMA at checkout. BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/MAMADRAMA As always check out our website http://babymamasnodrama.com and follow our IGs @babymamasnodramapodcast @Kaillowry @veeautifyme

Transcribed - Published: 8 October 2024

This week on BMND, Vee hosts solo and shares some exciting family news! She gives a behind-the-scenes look at the Ohio live show and explains why she was the only one who didn’t know about the surprise guest. Vee also answers listener questions, sharing thoughts on her new smile, revealing her dream job before podcasting, the most "Virgo" thing about her, and spilling the details on her go-to shopping spots. Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Happy Mammoth: For a limited time, you can get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the code BABYMAMA at checkout.  As always check out our website http://babymamasnodrama.com and follow our IGs @babymamasnodramapodcast @Kaillowry @veeautifyme

Transcribed - Published: 1 October 2024

This week on BMND, Kail and Vee read a coparenTEA from a listener whose mom devised a bold plan to rescue her baby from an abusive ex. Kail discusses an article about Boy Meets World and the episode that left a lasting impact on Danielle Fishel. The hosts also explore how men often suffer in silence when it comes to weight issues and share the advice they give their children about body image. Meanwhile, Vee breaks down an article weighing the risks and rewards of giving kids cell phones at different developmental stages. In Down in the DM's, a listener reveals why she should have trusted her instincts when her boyfriend kept her from meeting his friends and family. Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Happy Mammoth: For a limited time, you can get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the code BABYMAMA at checkout.  Naked Wines: So join the Naked Wines community and head to NakedWines.com/babymamas for 6 bottles of wine for JUST $39.99 with shipping included. As always check out our website http://babymamasnodrama.com and follow our IGs @babymamasnodramapodcast @Kaillowry @veeautifyme

Transcribed - Published: 24 September 2024

This week on BMND, Kail shares an update on a father’s ongoing custody battle after relocating to a different state. In CoparenTEA, a listener seeks advice on managing guardianship over her niece and wonders if she’s handling the situation the right way. Kail and Vee open up about their fears of addiction while discussing the latest Kanye West headlines. Vee also gives her take on the drama between Bre and Chelsea from Selling Sunset. And in Down in the DM's, a listener seeks help dealing with a man who’s driving a wedge between her aunt and the rest of the family. Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Hers: Start your free online visit today at forhers.com/BABYMAMA  Happy Mammoth: For a limited time, you can get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the code BABYMAMA at checkout.  As always check out our website  http://babymamasnodrama.com and follow our IGs @babymamasnodramapodcast @Kaillowry @veeautifyme

Transcribed - Published: 17 September 2024

This week on BMND, Kail and Vee share their excitement and nerves leading up to their first live show. They dive into a listener write-in from a mental health counselor who offers valuable insights on therapy and navigating different life stages. Vee reads a co-parenTEA from a stepmom seeking advice on custody issues involving a child who lives in another state. Kail and Vee also break down a co-parenting post from The Shade Room, sharing how they managed Isaac’s birthdays during tough times. Plus, they tackle the spicy question: would they prefer bad sex or no sex at all? And in Down in the DMs, a teacher uncovers a secret between two students, while another listener makes a shocking discovery while cleaning a car for work. Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Happy Mammoth: For a limited time, you can get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the code BABYMAMA at checkout. BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/MAMADRAMA SKIMS: Shop the SKIMS Soft Lounge Collection at SKIMS.com. Now available in sizes XXS - 4X. After you place your order, select "podcast" in the survey and select “Baby Mamas No Drama with Kail Lowry & Vee Rivera” in the dropdown menu that follows.

Transcribed - Published: 10 September 2024

This week on BMND, Kail and Vee address the backlash from a recent viral post, diving into the criticisms and their responses. They also discuss Nick Cannon’s interview with Dr. Bryant, sparking a conversation about multiple partner fertility and some surprising statistics around it. In this week’s coparenTEA, there’s a follow-up from last week’s episode, along with a new dilemma from a listener seeking advice on step-siblings who don’t get along. Vee shares her thoughts after being triggered by a coparenTEA post that caught her attention. And in Down in the DMs, a shocking story unfolds as a woman discovers she’s being cheated on through a series of suspicious emails. Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Pair Eyewear: Go to paireyewear.com and use code BABYMAMA for 15% off your first Pair BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/MAMADRAMA  Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at SHOPIFY.COM/bmnd Don’t forget to check your emails, if you nominated baby mamas for the people’s choice podcast awards you may be randomly selected to vote in the final rounds. Voting ends on September 6th. As always check out our website  http://babymamasnodrama.com and follow our IGs @babymamasnodramapodcast @Kaillowry @veeautifyme Get tickets to see us in Columbus  http://kaillowry.com with @vibinandkinda thrivin 

Transcribed - Published: 3 September 2024

This week on BMND, Kail and Vee dive into a coparenTEA from a listener facing custody issues after a minor argument with their stepson. Vee shares a cautionary tale about the dangers of airing personal matters on social media. The duo also tackles bad advice surrounding anxiety and depression, explores the differences in how men and women experience hormonal cycles, and why they react differently to stress. Plus, Kail recounts her trip to Nobu and debates what popular trends might be overrated. And in Down in the DMs, a shocking story about a woman discovering her on-again, off-again partner has a secret child. Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Hers: Start your free online visit today at forhers.com/BABYMAMA  Find the right home at Homes.com 

Transcribed - Published: 27 August 2024