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Your Fantasy Life Is Not Just Yours #762

Sexy Marriage Radio

Dr Corey and Pam Allan

Relationships, Religion & Spirituality, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Christianity

4.61.2K Ratings

🗓️ 7 January 2026

⏱️ 27 minutes

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Summary

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss the complexities of how our fantasy life, desires and sexual practices are not just ours. We emphasize the importance of owning one's desires while recognizing the impact those desires have on spouses.

Our conversation explores themes of gridlock in relationships, the pursuit of 'enough' in intimacy, and the necessity of self-development and integrity within the context of marriage. Listeners are encouraged to confront their own roles in relationship dynamics and to communicate effectively with their partners to foster growth and understanding.

Enjoy the show!

On the Xtended version …

We talk through our 3 words for 2026. Words that will help shape our year. What are yours?

Listen to find out.

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0:00.0

Welcome back to another episode of Sexy Mirrors Radio, alongside my wife, Pam.

0:08.2

Always good to be here.

0:09.1

Welcome to 2026 from us to the nation.

0:13.7

New year, new possibilities, new focuses.

0:18.5

That's kind of what we'll be talking about in the extended content with the three

0:21.5

words that's the way we start every year and so even though we're you know almost a week into

0:27.3

the year now since the calendar fell yeah yeah yeah the extended content will walk through our three

0:32.9

words encourage those of you that are in the academy to share yours on the platform if you haven't

0:37.3

already but then on the regular version i just want to jump right into the idea to help

0:43.0

frame where we're heading today. Because if you think of all the years of us doing the show,

0:47.8

we've talked a whole lot about how do we own our own sexuality, our own desires, even in some instances our own practices,

0:57.5

you know, because we've talked about masturbation or we've taken an element where we've had

1:02.0

conversations talking about porn and we've tried to parse it out with the idea of a person's

1:08.2

use of whatever they may do with their own sexuality is theirs, right?

1:16.3

Like their body is theirs.

1:18.1

What they choose to do with it is theirs.

1:21.0

And so it's usually not caused by a partner.

1:24.6

You know, that's one of the frames we've kind of used of like it doesn't have anything

1:29.1

to do with you in the sense of what people may choose to do with their desires, their

1:32.8

fantasy or their mental life.

1:36.0

Okay.

1:36.7

But what we want to go today is their, your body is yours, but the impact is shared.

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