Your Emotional Triggers - When Your Partner Triggers You Take These Steps To Reflect & Reconnect Episode 84
EmPowered Couples with The Freemans
Aaron & Jocelyn Freeman
5.0 • 589 Ratings
🗓️ 16 June 2020
⏱️ 26 minutes
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Summary
You know those things your partner says or does that TRIGGER you? YES trigger, meaning you have an automatic emotion that comes up that then causes you to get upset. Then from there you may both do things that hurt and keep you disconnected for hours, days, or even weeks!
You're not alone, we received hundreds of comments when we asked the community what triggers them in their relationship. This episode comes directly from a post on FB and Instagram about "what does your partner do that triggers you?"
We share what many of those responses were PLUS:
- The root cause of your personal triggers
- 3 things you can do differently when you do get triggered
- And how to talk calmly to your partner about triggers so they can support you
Quotes:
"It's not your partner's responsibility to tip-toe around your emotional triggers. It is your opportunity to identify them, heal them and then ask them to support you." - Jocelyn
"Become aware, then share!" - Aaron
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Hello, couples, and welcome to the Empowered Couples podcast where you get non-boring relationship |
| 0:05.3 | advice so you can get the relationship skills to be the best communicators you've ever been and |
| 0:11.0 | fight smarter. I am one of your hosts, Aaron Freeman. And I'm Jocelyn Freeman, but you can just call |
| 0:15.5 | us the Freeman's. Welcome to this episode. We are really excited today to jump into emotional triggers. And this honestly |
| 0:23.2 | came from, we were amazed at the number of submissions and responses when we posted a question |
| 0:29.3 | in the community saying, what statements does your partner make or ask you that trigger you? |
| 0:34.7 | And I was amazed at the number of people that commented men and women. |
| 0:40.2 | I was really inspired by the number of men that wanted to share what was triggering them. |
| 0:44.9 | So as you're already hearing that, you might be like, okay, we need to talk about this because, |
| 0:50.4 | man, what's been happening in quarantine? Triggers. You're around each other more than ever. |
| 0:56.0 | But even when you're not in quarantine, I'm sure you get triggered by each other, right? |
| 1:01.0 | We've had to happen. |
| 1:02.0 | Yeah, absolutely. |
| 1:03.0 | This is it. |
| 1:04.0 | Because we got so many submissions, and by the way, on this podcast, we're going to share our own stories, |
| 1:10.0 | some of our own challenges, but it's through our challenges that we learn, relationship skills, to then tell you about it. |
| 1:15.9 | And that's what our courses are about. |
| 1:18.1 | And we are going to have submissions from the community just like this where we post on Instagram or Facebook. |
| 1:23.1 | And people like you actually can submit what you want us to talk about, what you want us to go into, |
| 1:28.7 | and honestly, getting back to emotional triggers, it basically to me, and this is just going to be |
| 1:34.2 | my perspective on this episode, whenever you're disconnected, whenever you're not on the same page, |
| 1:39.8 | whenever you're not thriving, whenever you're not like a true team, something has happened |
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