You’ve Evolved…But Are Your Beliefs Keeping Up?
Cultivating H.E.R. Space: Uplifting Conversations for the Black Woman
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4.8 • 1.3K Ratings
🗓️ 17 April 2026
⏱️ 50 minutes
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Summary
Hey lady! There comes a time when, hopefully, you wake up and say to yourself, I just don’t feel that way anymore. It can be at once both liberating and confusing. How can a belief or feeling you once held so deeply now seem like an ill-fitting sweater? Just like that sweater, now snug, uncomfortable, and no longer a match for who you are today, long-held beliefs can be difficult to shake but once you make the commitment to your growth, you’ll gain a new level of self-respect. One that you can carry as your superpower – the power to change your mind, especially when new information is presented.
This week, Terri and Dr. Dom, explore the ways they’ve examined their beliefs and challenged them. Some they kept but many they discarded without fanfare, just a simple, I’ve changed my mind. A woman has the right to change her mind, doesn’t she?
What beliefs do you still hold that are no longer serving you? Where could you use more compassion and less judgment in your life? And, where do you find yourself noticing that a particular belief is actually a projection?
Lady, there’s nothing wrong with keeping it real with yourself. In fact, it’s highly encouraged as you build a real and authentic life.
Speaking of keeping it real, head over to the enhanced Patreon community where Dr. Dom and Terri keep it all the way real about the behind the scenes of the making of the podcast. This community of like-hearted women gather and connect while letting their hair down. Ask Dr. Dom and Terri anything there…including Dr. Dom about her red beans and rice recipe. Inside joke for our Patreon subscribers. See you there!
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– Elder Black Woman
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| 0:00.0 | On this week's episode of cultivating her space, you said, be like, oh, I never did this. |
| 0:06.5 | Girl, I live some life. |
| 0:08.4 | I stopped saying this year real quick because I did about 10 things. |
| 0:12.0 | About 10 things. |
| 0:12.9 | I said, I would never do. |
| 0:13.8 | I was like, oh, here we go. |
| 0:16.0 | Life is showing you. |
| 0:17.1 | Yeah, life is showing you. |
| 0:20.3 | Hey, lady. Have you ever felt like the world just doesn't get you? |
| 0:25.8 | Well, we do. |
| 0:28.6 | Welcome to cultivating her space, the podcast dedicated to uplifting and empowering women like you. |
| 0:35.2 | We're your host. Dr. Dominique Broussard, an educator and psychologist, and Terry Lomax, |
| 0:41.2 | a techie and transformational speaker. Join us every week for authentic conversations about everything |
| 0:48.2 | from fibroids to fake friends as we create space for black women to just be. |
| 0:56.7 | Before we dive in, make sure you hit that follow button and leave us a quick five-star |
| 1:00.7 | review. Lady, we are black founded and black owned and your support will help us |
| 1:05.5 | reach even more women like you. Now, let's get into this week's episode of cultivating her space. |
| 1:14.3 | If you want more speaking engagements, collaborations, or visibility for your brand, |
| 1:19.7 | I've got to tell you the truth. This is Terry Lomax, and I've been a public speaker for over 12 years. |
| 1:24.8 | I've landed national media, a TED talk, and six-figure collaborations without a |
| 1:30.0 | publicist or a big social media following. And here's what most people don't hear. You don't need a |
| 1:34.7 | publicist or a massive audience to get booked. Most people are waiting to feel established first, |
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