What up fuckers it's Christina Hutchinson and Corinne Fisher you're about to listen to a clip from our show guys we fucked the anti-slut streaming podcast and if you want to hear more of this this interview with

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hmm talked about relationships question because I never sit down on a go what do I want out of my friendships I mean I just I want

I think it's in love that's it in general I think it's all the same I I'm at a place where I'm I'm taking a look at the relationships that I have and I'm

saying okay what level do I fill I'm at in this relationship and what level do I think the person what what are they showing me in their

actions in their you're doing an episode of chopped over there I do a very fun no I can't stop talking

I just see you with like a whole like chart of like who's getting a cut and they don't even know like they're your

phones gonna rain they're gonna get chopped out of your friends because I was talking to my hands the man talking

doesn't bother me I'm from New Jersey oh yeah it's Christmas time so I'm checking my list checking it twice who's

not he who's nice you got to go but I'm not being unreasonable because I'm really looking and saying okay let me just

reciprocate and reflect what this relationship really is yeah and then that way if I don't have a certain

expectation of this person right then their not these aren't getting hurt yeah and all of this extra value and

stuff that I was putting into it I could put it into the person that's actually reciprocating that back to me

right so whether that's a friendship or a romantic really I'm not dating right now I'm single but in a romantic

relationship it's all the same thing to me right now yeah what are you we you reflecting back to me

instead of me just pouring everything into you and then evaluating it a year or two later when my

feelings are hurt like how does that happen have you ever been the have been friends with somebody and

then you realize they were meeting you the whole time for like a long time and you're like oh oops when I

was younger I love the part of the show or Christina asked a question it's obviously a failure

definitely about me because I'm not in the comic because I take a lot of

the audience it's a comic about okay this is not doesn't count I don't think female friend but I

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