You're So Good You're Bad
We Talk Back
The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts
4.4 • 737 Ratings
🗓️ 20 November 2025
⏱️ 76 minutes
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Summary
AJ Holiday and TamBam explore the true characteristics of masculinity, breaking down what defines a “real man” in the context of modern relationships. They contrasts genuine confidence, emotional maturity, and self-awareness with the behavior of men who engage in negativity and performative opinions online. AJ emphasizes that while money may enhance a man’s appeal, true charisma and attraction come from inner confidence, presence, and authenticity.
The conversation also delves into the influence of cultural figures like Kevin Samuels on men’s dating perspectives, self-image, views on relationships and the importance of emotional intelligence, accountability, and respectful communication in building healthy connections.
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| 0:00.0 | This is an IHeart podcast. |
| 0:04.1 | Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of IHeart Radio and the Black Effect Network. |
| 0:13.0 | We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who talks back. |
| 0:19.3 | What's up, y'all? |
| 0:20.3 | It's a girl, AJ Holiday. What's up,'all It's your girl AJ holiday |
| 0:22.2 | What's up, Tandam? |
| 0:24.2 | Yeah, it's Tand Bam |
| 0:25.3 | Y'all know |
| 0:25.9 | Y'all know |
| 0:26.8 | I love y'all |
| 0:28.0 | Not y'all know |
| 0:28.8 | Y'all know what |
| 0:30.3 | Y'all know what the fuck going on |
| 0:32.0 | I love to win the kid |
| 0:33.1 | Like that |
| 0:33.6 | How's your weekend? |
| 0:35.9 | Oh, I did go outside |
| 0:37.4 | Who did you do? Oh, I did go outside. |
| 0:38.4 | I told you to do. |
| 0:41.3 | No, just one day, bitch. |
| 0:42.7 | I still did Costco. |
| 0:45.0 | No, I still did TJ Max and Marshalls. |
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