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We Talk Back

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We Talk Back

The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts

Comedy, Society & Culture

4.4737 Ratings

🗓️ 27 November 2025

⏱️ 58 minutes

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Summary

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holliday and Tam Bam serve up a lively and candid conversation centered around Thanksgiving gratitude, culinary responsibilities, and the pressure of holiday expectations. They explore the emotional weight of hosting, family dynamics, and the tradition-filled stress that comes with preparing the perfect holiday.

The discussion evolves into a deep dive into Summer Walker’s recent relationship controversy, unpacking themes of self-worth, accountability, and emotional boundaries in modern dating. The hosts examine how societal expectations, especially for successful and financially independent women, impact romantic relationships and the perception of femininity.

They also touch on Kandi Burruss’s rumored divorce, using it as a doorway to explore the impact of success, ego, and financial imbalance on partnerships. AJ and Tam highlight how ego—not success—destroys relationships, emphasizing the importance of emotional security, support, and mutual celebration of wins.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

This is an I-Heart podcast.

0:02.5

Guaranteed Human.

0:04.3

Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, a production of IHart Radio and the Black Effect Network.

0:10.8

Talk to them.

0:13.2

We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who talks back.

0:19.7

What's up y'all, J. Holiday? What's up, T'all? It's your girl, AJ Holiday.

0:22.7

What's up, Tand Bam?

0:24.4

Gobble, gobble, gobble.

0:25.9

I love y'all.

0:26.9

It's Thanksgiving.

0:28.3

Happy Thanksgiving, folks.

0:29.9

I love y'all.

0:31.5

How's the weekend?

0:33.0

Oh, I was about to say, what you're grateful for this week?

0:35.4

Oh, that's a good question.

0:37.2

I am grateful for good health.

0:42.0

I'm grateful for healthy relationships.

0:47.4

I'm grateful for bundle deals tomorrow.

0:52.1

I'm grateful for my side teeth.

0:55.7

Yo.

0:57.0

I am.

0:57.8

I was just looking at it.

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