Hey everybody welcome to your move where we help you make better decisions and live with fewer regrets

I'm Andy Stanley and I'll be your guide

Have you ever watched a friend or maybe a family member make a really bad decision or get involved in something that you know

It's just not good for them and you think to yourself, you know

I should say something and then you think to yourself no that will just make them mad

What do you normally do in a situation like that?

What should you do in a situation like that and what would you hope they would do if the roles were reversed?

That's what we're talking about today right here on your move

So today we are wrapping up the series and we are in part six of you're not the boss of me

And if you've not been with us the subtitle is how to say no to the emotions that compete for control

Because all of us have certain emotions that compete for control of our mouth and our mood and Jesus said

Jesus said that what's on the inside of us eventually comes on the outside of us and consequently we need to not simply monitor

What's going on in art with our behavior because all of us are pretty good at monitoring our behavior

We need to develop the habit we need to develop the habit of monitoring our hearts

While I was doing this series I listened I was listening to Tim Ferris podcast and he was interviewing artist Amanda Palmer

And she talked about a conversation she had with a friend and she quoted her friend

And I don't think she gave her friends names

So I don't know who said this but this was a friend of of Amanda Palmer and I love this quote

Here's what he said that she remembered that I wrote down if you don't deal with your demons

They go into the cellar of your soul and lift weights

That is a great quote the only thing I don't like about it is that I didn't come up with it myself now

Does this is so powerful and the imagery is so true right if you don't deal with your demons those things on the inside

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