Hi everybody, welcome to Your Move where we help you make better decisions and live with fewer regrets.

I'm Andy Stanley and I will be your guide.

Now, here's something we all have in common.

We've all been hurt, we've all been betrayed, perhaps you've been used, perhaps you've even been abused.

So the question you ask yourself at some point is now what?

What do you do with all that stuff that's well churning around on the inside?

Well that's what we're going to talk about today right here on Your Move.

Stick around.

So tonight we're talking about the rules for the road.

Basically the rules for navigating life successfully.

So I'm going to tell you all the secrets of navigating life successfully.

No, I don't think so, but I'm going to share some of them with you as I have figured these out.

And the truth is, as we know life is complicated.

All of us have lived long enough there that life is complicated.

But that always takes us by surprise because it just doesn't seem like life should be so complicated.

And of course sometimes we make it more complicated than it should be.

And as I was preparing for our time together, I thought of a story that is absolutely true even though you're going to think I'm making this up.

But I have a friend who has two younger brothers and his youngest brothers, three boys, the youngest of the three.

I want to graduate from high school, got some of his buddies together and they did their senior trip to Daytona, you know, dude.

And so anyway, they made their way down to Daytona.

And a week later, all the friends came back and he just stayed for a year.

He went to Daytona with a senior friend.

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