Welcome to let it be easy with Susie Moore.

I want to share with you today my friend a realization that I had that was really powerful

for me. It kind of pertains to yesterday's episode about not forcing things, but this is in a specific life area. Now I'm guessing if

you're attracted to this podcast, especially if you're a long time listener now to the daily pods,

you are probably pretty ambitious, maybe in fact you're the most ambitious in your friendship circle. Maybe people

come to you for advice. Maybe people look to you to help support them with the

vision that they want to hold for their lives. I know this has been true for me over the years and the people who are typically

attracted to my work often are leaders and guides in this way and that's something to be applauded and loved and encouraged because it's a beautiful thing to be able to

share energy with people that's elevating and also to be the example of someone who is just being the change,

following the footsteps that matter to them,

and forging ahead towards their desires and dreams.

Now, I can tell you this. desires and

this is full of love and compassion to myself and this is full of love and compassion to myself and everyone involved, I've come to the realization

that some people can become really dependent on us to hold their vision for them. Now I am guilty of this.

Meaning I've had friends, clients, people in my world who will come to me, call me, text me when they're

feeling doubts about what it is that they're doing, when they're feeling really down in the dumps, when they're feeling discouraged, and look, I always want to be that support person.

But not to the point where I am really standing in for them and holding the faith and holding the vision on their behalf.

Now maybe you're doing this without even realizing it.

Maybe there are a couple of people in your life

who come to you constantly,

almost needing to be filled up by your tank of energy,

by your tank of wisdom, by your tank of wisdom, by your tank of self-belief, and being in proximity

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