Welcome to Let It Be Easy with Susie Moore.

I have three little words for you today that can really be helpful when it comes to

decision-making and when it comes to finding peace with where you're at and what your next

step is. It's generally what I would call

pretty great advice. Are you ready for these three words? It's simply this. Don't force it. I just, I, I love this short statement that whenever I find myself in a position where I'm forcing something, this mantra, don't force it, comes back to me.

For me it's a real let it be easy mantra, because when we're forcing, we're not really

quite at one with life, are we're like hustling or we're making

something happen versus allowing something to happen and I feel as if it applies to many, many things.

You may have experienced this with a relationship

where you're like, oh, but maybe it could work out with this guy or this girl.

And you find that you kind of force it it doesn't work in the end.

I even found it recently with a pair of pants that I was going to buy I'm like they don't fit

perfectly but maybe with the right top, maybe with the right. And I'm like, you know what? No, I'm not going to force it.

The same thing can even happen with friendships. Maybe there's a friend who you hang out with out of loyalty, right? Out of maybe years together knowing each other, versus out of intention, versus out of joy,

versus out of the reason real friendship exists, which is a mutual respect and adoration and affection,

that you have for one another.

I found this in my life, you know.

I forced some friendships or forced myself to maintain them

when they just simply no longer feel so good. We seem to no longer

be a match with a certain person. That's okay. It's natural. Maybe there's a hobby

or a skill or a type of workout that you've just really been trying to get yourself to love and get into, but it's simply not working because it's not who you are.

Don't force it. Don't force it. Don't force it.

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