You’re Missing Out on Better Orgasms (and Sex!) – Here’s Why!

Sex With Emily

Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.3 • 6.8K Ratings

🗓️ 20 February 2026

⏱️ 41 minutes

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Blood flow might not sound sexy, but it’s the fuel behind satisfying sex. In this live episode from the A4M Longevity Conference in Las Vegas, I sit down with certified nurse practitioner and ⁠Medical Director at GAINSWave, Chrislyn Chaloupka, to discuss how GAINSWave’s non-invasive regenerative therapy is reshaping sexual wellness by addressing root causes rather than simply masking symptoms. We dive into why your body might not be responding the way it used to, from erections that fade under pressure to that frustrating gap between wanting sex and your body just not cooperating. Chrislyn breaks down how this painless 15-minute treatment works (that I even tried myself), and we get real about everything from porn-induced desensitization to why erectile challenges can actually be your heart trying to tell you something important. Don't forget to watch the full video podcast on YouTube! What you'll learn: • Why "just relax and use more lube" isn't solving your arousal problems—and what actually will • How shockwave therapy can help with everything from weak orgasms to stress urinary incontinence (yes, the sneeze-and-pee situation) • The psychological factors that can make even the best physical treatments fail until you address the deeper story This Episode is sponsored by Gainswave. Go to gainswave.com and find a provider near you to regain your freedom and pleasure in the bedroom.This episode was recorded live at the A4M Longevity Conference in Las Vegas 2025. Want to try the Magic Wand Waterproof? Head to shop.sexwithemily.com/magicwand More Dr. Emily: • Shop With Emily! Explore Emily’s favorite toys, pleasure accessories, bedroom essentials, and more — designed to support your pleasure and confidence. Free shipping on orders $99+ (some exclusions apply). • Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. • Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply! • Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. • The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure • Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website • Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube • Let’s text: Sign up here • Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Timestamps: 0:00 - Intro 1:07 - What Is A4M & Why Emily Was There 3:16 - Meet Guest Chrysen Chalupka: Nurse Practitioner & Regenerative Medicine Expert 12:17 - Regenerative Medicine Explained: Treating Root Causes, Not Symptoms 13:34 - What Is Shockwave Therapy & How Does It Actually Work 15:28 - The GainsWave Treatment: What It Feels Like (Emily's Experience) 17:03 - Who Benefits Most: Women, Pain, Dryness & Orgasm Issues 23:28 - Shockwave for Men: Erections, Blood Flow & Hidden Heart Health Warnings 27:09 - The Psychology of Sexual Dysfunction: When It's Not Just Physical 28:52 - Porn, Masturbation & Desensitization: The Conversation Nobody's Having 32:57 - Beyond Sexual Health: Treating Joints, Injuries & Chronic Pain with Shockwave 35:30 - How to Find a GainsWave Provider Near You Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Blood flow is so key to sexual functioning.
0:06.6	And that really is.
0:07.6	We talk about regenerative medicine treating the root cause.
0:09.9	A lot of times we just don't have as much blood flow.
0:12.2	And I'm really healthy.
0:13.2	I work out.
0:13.9	I eat all the good foods.
0:14.9	I do the things.
0:15.7	But why would someone like me then need this treatment?
0:18.4	When we are trying to be proactive and when we can catch these things
0:22.6	earlier, we know we're starting to see small changes. With women, we start that perimenopausal
0:27.4	state so early in life, really, when you consider how long the average lifespan is. We start to
0:33.2	deteriorate very mildly at first. And then I think women start complaining all of a sudden of, oh my gosh, I feel like I have
0:40.6	sandpaper between my legs.
0:41.9	I don't want to have sex anymore.
0:43.2	It's painful.
0:44.5	And then that obviously, as you know, falls into so many other issues within a marriage, right?
0:51.0	Right.
0:51.0	Not being able or not wanting to have sex.
0:53.4	Thanks for listening to Sex with Emily. I am Dr. Emily. Right. Not being able or not wanting to have sex.
1:04.8	Thanks for listening to Sex with Emily. I am Dr. Emily and I am here to help you prioritize your pleasure and liberate the conversation around sex.
1:13.7	Now, today's episode is coming to you straight from the American Academy of Anti-Aaging Medicine, also known as A4M.
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