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We Met At Acme

You Never Know Where You’ll Meet Your Person ft. Olivia Amato

We Met At Acme

Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

Education, Society & Culture, Relationships, Self-improvement

4.22.4K Ratings

🗓️ 26 March 2023

⏱️ 50 minutes

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Summary

On today’s episode, I sit down with Peloton’s favorite and Puma athlete, Olivia Amato. Olivia and I discuss her path to Peloton, the pressures of being a fitness instructor, meeting her now husband, cultural differences in her relationship, her time single in NYC, how having a dog prepares you to be parents, creepy internet stalkers, sharing an ex with another influencer, and more. This episode starts with a Q&A where I answer questions about age gaps in relationships, what you should want to change vs accept about a partner, and dealing with avoidant partners.

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0:00.0

The following podcast is a deer media production.

0:06.5

Hey guys, welcome back to Wee Minuteaknee. I'm so excited for today's episode with Olivia Amado.

0:12.2

She is just such a cool girl. Like, her energy is amazing. She's just somebody that I definitely

0:19.3

would want to be friends with in real life. And it's funny because when someone has a lot of followers,

0:24.4

like you just never know what they're going to be like and she's awesome. I'm really excited

0:29.0

for you to hear this episode. And before we get into it, going to answer a few of questions

0:34.4

that you wrote in. And then we'll get right to it. This person says, my ex of 10 months and I

0:42.0

ended things three weeks ago. He is extremely avoidant and has not figured himself out. I don't

0:48.0

think he was fully ready to be in a relationship. He is already back on hinge as a week ago,

0:52.6

apparently. And his relationship, looking for says, figuring out relationship type. He is not

0:59.3

the type to sleep around slash data lot. Is it common for avoidant attachment males to seek

1:04.7

validation in this way or to boost ego? Why do guys do everything but go to therapy? Love your

1:11.8

pod. By the way, it's really helping me heal. Thanks so much. Thank you. So this is really hard.

1:17.8

I think that this is a typical guy who is definitely not ready for a relationship. I'm curious

1:25.6

how old he is, but it just sounds like based off what you said. He is definitely not looking for

1:31.6

anything serious. And also he wouldn't want to attract anybody who is. Maybe he in his avoidance

1:39.4

is a little scarred from being with you if you're secure and not avoidant. We did a whole episode

1:44.8

on this actually with Chris Rackliff about avoidant attachment style folks. So I highly recommend

1:52.5

you listen to that episode to kind of learn more about where he's coming from and his perspective,

1:59.7

not saying that he's great or anything. Just saying that some people are avoidant. And it might not

2:05.3

have to do with you. It might not have to do with, you know, it might be something that had happened in

2:09.9

his childhood or with his parents relationship, whatever it is, but clearly he is just perpetuating

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