You Need Help to Help Her
Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel
Esther Perel Global Media
4.7 • 16.4K Ratings
🗓️ 9 March 2018
⏱️ 46 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | What you're about to hear is an unscripted one-time couples counseling session. |
| 0:05.0 | It contains mature themes and listener discretion is advised. |
| 0:09.0 | For the purposes of maintaining confidentiality, names and some identifiable characteristics have been removed. |
| 0:16.0 | But their voices and their stories are real. |
| 0:21.0 | We don't understand what's happened or how to help her and what parts we even can help her with and what parts she just has to figure out. |
| 0:34.0 | The specific things of this happened or this happened or this is going on. |
| 0:38.0 | It's not as important as we need to get a better. |
| 0:42.0 | I mean, whether that's next week, next month, next year, we just need to get a better. |
| 0:50.0 | In a family, there are various couples. |
| 0:54.0 | One, the intimate couple, the spousal couple. |
| 0:57.0 | But the other is also the parental couple. |
| 1:00.0 | This couple came in not for marital issues, but for difficulties and challenges that they were having between them and their daughter. |
| 1:10.0 | She was diagnosed with bipolar and anxiety and depression, PTSD. |
| 1:19.0 | All of the above in the last two years. |
| 1:23.0 | We haven't told. We don't talk about it with our family. There's maybe two people who know. |
| 1:29.0 | I can't keep lying. I feel like I'm lying to everybody. |
| 1:33.0 | I'm lying to family, I'm lying to friends. |
| 1:37.0 | I couldn't even imagine not doing this with somebody. |
| 1:42.0 | I could imagine tearing people apart. Easy. Very easy. |
| 1:48.0 | Yeah. |
| 1:51.0 | The parents have sought help, but they received help as a couple. |
| 1:56.0 | And it seemed to me that this couple doesn't need help as a couple. |
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