Live for Live from Nashville, Tennessee. This is the Ramsey Show where we help people with their money, their relationships, their life, building wealth, getting out of debt, all of it. I'm John Delone joined by my good friend Jade Warsaw, and we are live.

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So go out to Chicago, Illinois and talk to Jake. What's up Jake? How we doing brother?

Hey guys, can you hear me? Yeah, I got you man. What's up?

Awesome, thank you so much God bless you both. Thank you. Just calling for a relationship question.

I've got a girlfriend now, I've been dating just for over a month and she comes from out of the country actually.

But she's been in the US for a couple of years now and she's trying to get rid of her debt she's on the baby steps

doing every dollar but she tells me like she's being overwhelmed because she's trying

to also her family overseas is asking for money unfortunately they grew up

kind of in poverty so they're struggling and I'm just trying to get relationship

advice from you guys on how to handle that on the

sideline and be supportive and give advice. Where is she from? I just want to say

you that South America. Okay that's fine a very, very, very, very, very common thing.

Millions and millions and millions and millions and millions of dollars are sent back home

when one or two or five or six family members make it to the U.S.

And so being this new relationship for a month I would sit with her and keep my mouth shut. I know that's right. And I would sit with her and keep my mouth shut and I would say man I know that's really hard I know it's tough I know you're in a pickle I know if like I want you to sit and hear her and unless she specifically says do you have advice for me on how I can get out of this situation which I doubt that question will actually come.

I want you just to be present with her because she's probably pretty smart and she probably

needs you to be near her and needs your emotional support more than she needs your facts.

Does that make sense?

Yeah, yeah, I got you. Yeah, I guess Jay do you have anything there? I mean I guess that's kind of is what it is man. Y'all been together a month. This difference if you were married five years or something like that.

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