You Deserve Better Sex! Here’s How to Ask for It (Without Feeling Awkward) with Susan Bratton - 1200

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Chalene Johnson

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4.8 • 7.2K Ratings

🗓️ 6 June 2025

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

Ladies, this one’s gonna blow your mind (and maybe change your sex life forever). Chalene Johnson sits down with intimacy expert Susan Bratton — also known as the "Orgasm Queen" — for a conversation that’s equal parts educational, eye-opening, and just the right amount of spicy. They break down what’s really going on when sex starts to feel different in long-term relationships, and what most women have never been told about arousal, pleasure, and what their bodies truly need. If you’ve ever felt “off” or disconnected in the bedroom, this episode is for you.

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✅ What You Will Learn

The biggest difference between male and female arousal (and why it matters)
What “lady boner” means (yes, it’s real) and why it’s the missing link in your pleasure
How to have the “orgasm conversation” in a long-term relationship
What a Yoni Massage is and why it can completely transform your experience
Why you may not feel lubricated — and how to fix it naturally
The truth about orgasms during intercourse (and how to actually have them)
Tools, techniques, and oils that can boost intimacy and connection
How to talk to your partner about trying something new…without it getting awkward
The role of relaxation in sexual pleasure
Why communication (and a sexy setup!) matters more than technique

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💥Related Links:

Follow Susan on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/susanbratton/?hl=en
Susan’s recommended tools, oils, and techniques - https://www.drivedesire.com/
Download the erotic playdate checklist - https://www.sexlifebucketlist.com/
Learn the “crossing the chasm” method - https://www.orgasmicintercourse.com/
Learn the ancient stroke pattern that helps both partners - https://www.thrustintime.com/
Susan’s content, tips, and newsletter - https://www.betterlover.com/

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Transcript

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0:00.0	We are so lucky today to have intimacy expert two millions.
0:05.0	Susan Bretton.
0:06.0	Susan Bretton has personally helped myself and my husband.
0:09.0	We've been married for more than 30 years.
0:11.0	I thought we knew everything and I had a great sex life until I tuned into some of her content and was blown away.
0:18.0	She's sometimes also referred to as the orgasm queen. Without further ado, we welcome
0:22.8	back to the show, my friend Susan Bratton. Hello, Shalene. It's so good to be here in studio together
0:28.7	instead of on the zoomy zooms. We love this. And I just get to see your beautiful preciousness
0:33.6	in real life, which is so delicious to me. Well, thank you. I appreciate all the compliments. That's
0:39.7	fun. That's one of the things I think sometimes men don't understand is like that just, you know,
0:46.6	when you start to get compliments, just that kind of relaxes you and it makes you feel a certain way.
0:51.9	So let's start right off the bat, men and women and the way that we
0:55.2	get aroused. Can you, in a nutshell, tell us what's the biggest difference that men need to know
1:00.2	about women's arousal? Yes. I will get out my handy banana. Okay. Walla. This is my banana.
1:06.7	So it's pretty easy to imagine this as a penis, right?
1:15.4	And about half of it sticks out of a man's body, and half of it actually goes in and down.
1:19.0	Guys love it when they find out everything is twice as big as they thought it was.
1:21.3	They're all like, oh, that's even better.
1:25.6	And if I peel this banana, everything inside is the fruit.
1:28.4	Well, that's spongy erectile tissue.
1:33.7	So his penis goes from this little tiny thing to this great big thing because it gets filled with blood.
1:36.5	The sponges get filled with blood flow.
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