you can't fix them
Christ With Coffee On Ice
Ally Yost
4.9 • 2.8K Ratings
🗓️ 13 February 2026
⏱️ 49 minutes
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Hey y'all ! Welcome to another Friday with CWCOI ! In this week's episode, our host, Ally Yost talks through a reality check for those of us who want to fall into a habit of control or a belief system that we can fix somebody. We can not be the source of somebody's change and this episode highlights our role in people's lives and God's role.
"And we are confident that he hears us whenever we ask for anything that pleases him. And since we know he hears us when we make our requests, we also know that he will give us what we ask for." 1 John 5:14-15
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| 0:00.0 | Hello, everybody. Welcome to another episode of Christ with coffee on ice. I am your host, |
| 0:06.6 | Ali Yost. It is a joy and honor to be here with you guys today. Happy Friday, everybody. Welcome. |
| 0:14.2 | I am so excited to be here with you guys today. I am filled with so much joy. Thank you, Jesus. |
| 0:20.7 | His joy is like nothing else on the planet. |
| 0:23.6 | Like the joy of Jesus is truly not even, there's no drug on the planet that could actually compare to just the high of the joy of the Lord. |
| 0:37.2 | Hopefully that's not blasphemous. It's true, though. Like, there's like an endorphin boost in the joy of God. I don't know. Jesus, I love you. I'm not trying to disrespect you. Your joy is just everything. It's everything. It is better than oxygen. It is everything. And so if you feel like you are lacking joy of the Lord today, I just declare that over you |
| 0:56.3 | right now in Jesus' name. God, I declare joy over my friend on the other side of this podcast, Jesus. |
| 1:02.6 | I thank you, Lord, that you have given me the gift of joy and you've promised them that same gift. And so I |
| 1:07.9 | declare the joy of Jesus over them, God. I plead the joy of Jesus over them God I plead the joy of Jesus over my friend |
| 1:14.4 | regardless of circumstances regardless of things worries fears anxieties I pray joy God I thank you that it |
| 1:21.4 | says in your word that there is actually nothing that can come in between the love that you |
| 1:25.1 | have for us and there is nothing that can actually take your |
| 1:28.0 | joy from us and so I remind my friend that today I declare the truth of the gospel and I pray joy |
| 1:34.9 | over them in Jesus name. Amen. Amen. Guys, today is such a great day. It's a beautiful day because we get |
| 1:41.1 | to spend it together and so as you guys know, it's my favorite day of the week. It's literally my favorite thing to do. I'm obsessed with my job. I'm obsessed with you guys. I'm obsessed with our community. I'm obsessed with Jesus. God, thank you for today. And today's going to be a really fun episode. It's going to be a fun episode because it's going to be giving a holy |
| 2:02.5 | slap in the face. It's going to be a reminder check, a reality check for a lot of us who want to |
| 2:09.7 | fall into this habit of control, this habit or belief system that we can change people or we can fix them. |
| 2:19.2 | And so today we're going to talk about how you cannot be the source of somebody's change. |
| 2:25.4 | You cannot fix somebody. |
| 2:28.0 | And I think really, ultimately, the goal in all of this is remembering the truth of who we are and the truth of who God is. |
| 2:37.2 | Remembering our role in people's lives, but then also remembering the role of who God is |
| 2:42.8 | and like letting him be God. |
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