Welcome to Let It Be Easy with Susie Moore.

There's one thing that I used to do, younger me used to do, that I wouldn't do anymore,

that is an era of myself where I've certainly received growth and this part of me, the need to do

this I have abandoned with love. It is this. You can let someone go without making them wrong.

I used to be unable to do this. I used to think that if there was a separation of some kind, say with a romantic partner, with a friend, maybe even with a boss or a

coworker, if someone outgrew a situation or the situation no longer worked, in my mind, I would need to make that person a villain

somehow, often to ease my own guilt or to explain the situation to other people versus letting

it be just what it is, allowing a clean, appropriate, natural separation. If you are going to separate from something, it doesn't always need a story,

even if you're going to just create distance between you and someone else. That also doesn't

need a story. I mean, think about it for a moment. Maybe there's a friend in your life that you used to have a lot in common with, but there

are changes in geography, there are changes in lifestyle, and you just kind of don't enjoy the

same conversations anymore.

That's okay.

It doesn't mean that that person's a villain, nor are you.

You simply, naturally, just spend less time together without

drama, without fallout. There is nothing to explain. Maybe in some areas of your life,

you've just really grown, you've had maybe an emotional or a spiritual growth spurt and other people aren't

viving with you in the same way that perhaps they used to. That's how you feel. There's nothing to

justify about how you may be changed, revolved or expanded or shifted. And no one is bad

for not meeting you where you are today.

What if absolutely nothing has gone wrong?

What if there is nothing heavy about this?

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