Welcome to Let It Be Easy with Susie Moore.

Did you know that your standards quietly decide your life? And really, there are no exceptions to this in any life area. What you tolerate repeats. Now, it's easier to look at this in the context of

somebody else's life. Like maybe you've got a friend who deals with just like shitty relationship

after shitty relationship. It's always so disappointing. And then you're like, why do you put up with

this? Well, her tolerance is matching it. She gets what she is willing to

tolerate. Now, standards are invisible, but they are completely powerful. And this is so much of

the work that we do in self-coaching society, please join us if you haven't already in our,

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internet. We're going to be speaking about this in a coaching call that's coming up soon. I'm

preparing it. All about how your life is a reflection of what it is that you don't push back on,

meaning aka simply you accept it. It's good with you.

Maybe you say yes to plans that don't feel right and now you're stuck with this calendar

that's draining you that's building resentment. The more you're, you have to go through the motions

of what you said yes to when you know you should have said

no thank you busy maybe you accept someone being really flaky or making half of an effort with you

and so that's the dynamic you have with someone in your life maybe you're just constantly putting up

with small things you just don't speak up about what you need.

Maybe, I don't know, you have like a food allergy or the room's always cold or something's

happening that's just always not fulfilling your needs and you never say a word.

So nothing changes.

I went to a beautician's appointment recently and she was complaining about the building saying

how they're not maintaining it. They're not maintaining fresh plants, etc, etc. And I was like, if you haven't complained, if you haven't told the manager of the building, they're not going to fix anything. You need to say to them, first of all, these are things that need to be fixed. And if they don't do it within a week, you need to say, do we need to talk about a temporary rent reduction until you fix these things? I do my part.

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