You are your values. You attract exactly who you are.

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Lyss Boss

Society & Culture, Relationships

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🗓️ 13 September 2025

⏱️ 37 minutes

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This episode is me unpacking my summer all through the lens of values. I realized that authenticity, freedom, self-love, and financial independence aren’t just “nice to have,” they’re literally the blueprint for my entire reality. Every decision I made this summer.. who I dated, how I worked, what I tolerated, what I walked away from, all came back to these values. I want you to not just hear my stories, but to start writing down your own non-negotiables and embodying them like your life depends on it, bc it does.

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0:00.0	Your values dictate your reality. And that's something that I've realized, especially this past summer, and I'm going to explain why. But I wrote this down in my phone and I knew I needed to record an episode about it. You are your values. You are your standards. You are what you hold yourself to. And who you truly are is revealed by what you live and breathe every single day and what
0:22.2	you believe. You are your value system. The standards you hold and the boundaries you have for yourself,
0:28.5	the choices you make when no one else is watching is going to dictate and define everything else in
0:34.8	your life. And your life is a mirror to your values and what
0:39.5	you hold as important in your life. Your life is a direct mirror of the values that you embody.
0:47.2	There was a moment this summer where I forgot what my values were in terms of the type of man that I want in my life. So in this episode,
0:59.6	I'm going to be explaining why your values are really your identity. Your values are going to
1:05.0	reflect the type of people that come into your life, your self-worth, your relationship to money,
1:09.3	and how powerful you are on a day-to-day.
1:11.9	I love this quote by Neville Goddard. Life doesn't give you what you want. It gives you what you are,
1:18.2	what you're embodying on a constant, consistent basis. I also read this the other day and I need to
1:24.4	share it. Values are the code that you're running on in your current
1:28.5	reality. Values shape the choices you make, the people you attract. I love that. And it could not be
1:34.6	more true. Okay. If you say you value loving yourself, self-love, but then you keep going back to a man
1:42.0	who treats you badly. Your real value is external validation. Your real
1:47.0	value is caring about how someone feels more than how you feel about yourself. You're putting
1:53.6	someone else on a pedestal before you and you're valuing the concept of abandonment and feeling
1:59.9	the need to prove yourself to someone else.
2:03.2	Let me repeat that and rephrase it.
2:05.4	If you're valuing things like self-love or self-worth and you say, you know, self-love is the
2:10.3	most important thing to me, but then you're tolerating someone treating you like absolute
2:14.6	garbage. Your values are out of sync. You may say you want one thing,
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