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Actually Nizamu, who, Ahmadu, the pillar of a building is also its Chivan.

The thing that holds something together and the thing that maintains that you can rely on all the time.

Furniture can move inside of a house.

Walls can move, pillars can't move.

Pillars have to be a constant.

We have to be the constant in our families for our...

This relationship is not something that will... in our

This relationship is not something that will carry itself. You'll have to actively maintain this relationship.

There's something that, the love between spouses

is not something that just carries on.

It has to be maintained and nurtured and flourished.

It needs to be something that needs to come, one needs to come back to.

You cannot assume that it's there.

It can dry up and it can fizzle away. The assumption that something has been forgiven or the

hurt the feelings of hurt are gone. That assumption it does not the hurt

doesn't go away on its own you have to work on getting rid of it you have to fix it so there's an

active role necessitated you know sometimes people are living under the same roof

they're not talking to each other for years or not not any real conversation

anyway how was dinner how was work, how was traffic,

oh hey, I'm just gonna watch TV now.

And years go by and people actually haven't had any conversation.

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