You Are Strong. You Just Haven’t Been Tested. | Only Fools Rush In
The Daily Stoic
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🗓️ 18 August 2023
⏱️ 9 minutes
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Summary
In August of 1967, Lieutenant Dave Carey was shot out of his A-4 Skyhawk over Vietnam. Soon enough, he found himself a prisoner in Hanoi, where he would subsequently be beaten, tortured and placed into solitary confinement. For six years, he languished there, kept going only by the comrades around him and an occasional pick me up from the Stoics.
As Carey explained on an incredible episode of the Daily Stoic podcast, fellow prisoners would tap, “Stockdale wants you to remember what Epictetus said,” through from an adjoining cell. Carey came to understand this to mean focus on what you control, focus on the choices you can make.
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And with today's Daily Stoic excerpt reading, Ryan explains why Marcus and the Stoics said time and time again that the ultimate key to success is being yourself no matter what.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Daily Stoic Podcast. On Friday, we do double duty, not just reading our |
| 0:08.8 | daily meditation, but also reading a passage from the Daily Stoic. My book, 366 Meditations |
| 0:15.4 | on Wisdom, Perseverance in the Art of Living, which I wrote with my wonderful collaborator, |
| 0:21.0 | translator, and literary agent, Stephen Hanselman. So today, we'll give you a quick meditation |
| 0:26.4 | from the Stoics with some analysis from me, and then we'll send you out into the world |
| 0:31.4 | to turn these words into works. |
| 0:40.8 | You are strong. You just haven't been tested. In August of 1967, Lieutenant Dave Carey |
| 0:51.1 | was shot out of his A4 Skyhawk over Vietnam. Soon enough, he found himself a prisoner in |
| 0:57.1 | Hanoi, where he would be subsequently beaten and tortured and placed into solitary confinement. |
| 1:03.2 | For six years, he languished there, kept going only by the comrades around him and the |
| 1:08.5 | occasional picked me up from the Stoics. As Carey explained in an incredible episode |
| 1:13.8 | of the Daily Stoic Podcast, fellow prisoners would tap Stockdale wants you to remember |
| 1:18.7 | what Epictetus said. And through his adjoining cell, Carey came to understand that this meant |
| 1:24.5 | to focus on what you control, focus on the choices you can make. And that's what he did, |
| 1:30.5 | surviving and enduring and eventually making it through. How did he do it? Carey said |
| 1:36.1 | that almost every single day since he returned home, someone had asked him where he found |
| 1:40.4 | the strength, wondering whether he was superhuman. He most definitely is not, he explained |
| 1:45.8 | on the podcast. And in fact, he wants everyone to know you have the same kind of strength that he |
| 1:51.0 | does. You have the same capacity and courage and endurance that he does. People just don't know |
| 1:56.8 | this because they haven't been tested. The world is a tough place. Things will go wrong. We will |
| 2:02.6 | suffer and deal with adversity. We should not be afraid of that though, Carey says. In fact, |
| 2:08.0 | that fear and that doubt, that's the thing that will hold you back. Know that you've got the |
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