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The Best of You

You Are Not Meant to Do This Alone

The Best of You

Dr. Alison Cook

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.9956 Ratings

🗓️ 24 April 2026

⏱️ 10 minutes

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Summary

Today’s Scripture is: 1 Thessalonians 5:9–11 In a culture that prizes independence, this episode offers a countercultural truth: healing happens in connection. Drawing on both Scripture and research on community and mental health, Dr. Alison explores how small, consistent relationships can restore your sense of belonging. In this episode: *Why community is essential for emotional health *Research on connection, resilience, and well-being *The power of micro-connections (small, daily interactions) *How to rebuild trust after relational hurt or church hurt *What mutual, healthy connection really looks like Go Deeper: Episode 17: What is Church Hurt and How do I Heal It? Episode 181: The Healing Power of Safe People (Not Just Safe Spaces) Connect with Dr. Alison on Instagram: @dralisoncook Join 80,000+ Soul Menders in Dr. Alison’s free email community for ongoing reflection and support. While Dr. Cook is a counselor, the content of this podcast and any of the products provided by Dr. Cook are not specific counseling advice nor are they a substitute for individual counseling. The content and products provided on this podcast are for informational purposes only.‍ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hey everyone, I'm Dr. Allison. Today's scripture offers us a wiser way of being human as we step into the day.

0:11.8

As we close out this week, we come back to something simple, but easy to forget. We are not meant to do this life alone. And yet so often we start to live as though we are.

0:23.4

We carry things inside of us. We process internally. We tell ourselves, I should be able to handle this.

0:30.5

Sometimes that self-reliance is necessary. Sometimes it's even a strength. But over time,

0:35.7

it can become a form of isolation, especially if you've been hurt,

0:40.2

if you've been disappointed, or if connection has felt complicated or unreliable. It can start to feel

0:46.2

safer to stay contained, to manage on your own to lower expectations. But scripture gently

0:53.2

reminds us, this is not in our design, not the design of our soul,

0:59.3

not the design of our lives. Today's scripture is First Thessalonians 511. Therefore,

1:07.0

encourage one another and build each other up just as in fact you are doing.

1:14.2

It's a simple verse, but there's something really grounding about this instruction.

1:19.0

Encourage one another. Build each other up.

1:22.3

And this doesn't have to be grand or dramatic.

1:25.3

Instead, it's the small, steady, consistent ways we show up for one another.

1:31.7

And notice the context here. This isn't written to individuals trying to figure out life on their own.

1:37.2

It's written to a community, a group of people learning imperfectly how to live connected to God

1:42.8

and to one another. Because often when we think about

1:46.3

connection, we think about one other person, the person who will meet all our needs, a person

1:51.5

who will complete the picture, a relationship that will finally make everything feel secure.

1:56.7

But scripture paints a different vision. It's a network of connection, a web of relationships,

2:02.7

moments of mutual encouragement woven throughout the rhythms of our ordinary lives.

2:07.9

And research in psychology actually supports this. Studies have found that people who regularly

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