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The Best of You

The Truth About Overfunctioning and Burnout

The Best of You

Dr. Alison Cook

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.9956 Ratings

🗓️ 27 April 2026

⏱️ 11 minutes

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Summary

Today's Scripture: Psalm 127:1–2If you feel constantly exhausted, it may not be about doing too much—but about carrying what was never yours to carry. In this episode, Dr. Alison explores Psalm 127 and the concept of “anxious toil,” integrating attachment theory and nervous system insight to help you release over-responsibility and rediscover rest. We explore:*Overfunctioning and burnout*Hypervigilance and the nervous system*How we start to build the wrong thingGo Deeper:Episode 138: Breaking Free from Overfunctioning—Discover the Hidden Costs of Always Being 'The Responsible One’Check out our new webpage here Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hey everyone, I'm Dr. Allison. Today's scripture offers us a wiser way of being human as we step into the day.

0:11.7

I want to start today with a question. What if the exhaustion you're feeling right now isn't because you're not doing enough, but because you're carrying

0:21.8

something you were never meant to carry. What if the tiredness in your body isn't a sign that

0:28.6

you need to push harder, but a signal that something in the way you're moving is out of alignment?

0:36.2

Today we're sitting with a short psalm, but it's one of those

0:39.1

passages that if you let it can gently begin to tap on some of the ways you've learned to survive.

0:45.8

Today's scripture is Psalm 127, 1 and 2. Unless the Lord builds the house, those who build it

0:53.7

labor in vain. Unless the Lord watches the house, those who build it labor in vain.

0:55.6

Unless the Lord watches over the city, the watchman stays awake in vain.

1:01.2

It is in vain that you rise up early and go late to rest, eating the bread of anxious toil,

1:06.8

for he gives to his beloved sleep.

1:11.6

This is both a beautiful and challenging passage.

1:14.6

I love it on one hand, and on another hand, I find it deeply convicting.

1:18.6

The Hebrew word here for vain doesn't just mean pointless.

1:22.6

It carries this sense of emptiness, of almost like vapor.

1:26.6

It's the same word that appears in the commandment against taking God's name in vain.

1:31.5

It describes something that looks substantial on the outside, but is hollow at its core.

1:36.3

And then there are these striking images, building a house, rising early, staying up late,

1:42.1

eating the bread of anxious toil. That phrase, the bread of anxious toil,

1:48.0

is such a psychologically precise description of toiling in a way that is disconnected from our

1:55.2

true selves, from God, and from the person we really want to be. The bread of anxious toil.

2:02.1

Just sit with that metaphor for a moment.

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