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Sex Nerd Sandra

Yes Means Yes! Consent with Jaclyn Friedman!

Sex Nerd Sandra

Sandra Daugherty

Sexuality, Comedy, Health & Fitness

4.31.5K Ratings

🗓️ 18 March 2017

⏱️ 58 minutes

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Summary

ARE YOU ON TEAM FUN? Author, podcaster and feminist troublemaker Jaclyn Friedman helps Sandra as they splash around the murky waters of consent. Going beyond no-means-no, they examine issues in heterosexual context, showing how to move from awkward to confident and from clunky to kind. TOPICS: The sex-positive movement vs the anti-sexual-violence movement, unscrewing masculinity/media/sex ed, sexual liberation, romance, body language, making it sexy, bad sex vs violence, affirmative/enthusiastic consent, sex scripts, consent apps, coerced experiences, thinking ethically vs legally, body sovereignty, gender, unpacking old trauma, playing Gotcha, the rules, drugs and alcohol impairment vs taking the edge off, which questions are rapey and how to violate our very own boundaries!

Transcript

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0:00.0

Now entering Nurdist.com.

0:05.0

Oh, look at this.

0:07.0

We have ourselves a podcast episode.

0:10.0

Hey, it's Sandra, and I'm so glad to be talking to you because that means I'm recording this intro

0:16.3

Which means I just listened to the episode where I interview Jacqueline Friedman all about consent

0:22.0

And I'm not talking about like that

0:23.8

serious consent where like oh are one of us going to get in trouble or something?

0:28.3

Sure that's all really important but I'm talking about consent where everyone's having an awesome time and really

0:34.6

present to their pleasure and they're getting their needs met and I think that so much and I've been seeing this a lot in sex positive circles and

0:47.4

sex ed circles where we talk about consent like it's this really nebulous confusing thing but at the end of the day it just

0:58.8

means that we all want to be doing what we're doing and of course Jacqueline

1:02.3

goes into so much more detail than me and she does

1:05.2

a lot more about it than me. So please enjoy this episode, share it around because I think this

1:11.0

is essential, especially if you know people who are in kinky communities, in orgy-tastic communities, or who are just new to the dating scene.

1:21.0

I think this stuff is really important. Let's see and me

1:24.7

Sandra I have been away for a bit and I'm so glad to be back. So glad to be with you and

1:31.4

I've had a hard time this last year as many of us have. If you

1:36.2

want to know more about my personal stuff I posted recently on my

1:39.6

Facebook page for Sex Nert Sandra so you, so you can read there, just some mental health stuff, some really bizarre aspects

1:49.8

of the human experience.

1:50.6

I didn't know were possible, which might sound vague.

1:55.6

I mean it to be vague because I will tell you more about it later because right now I want

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