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Sex Nerd Sandra

Pavlovian Sex: Human Clicker Training with Miss Holly!

Sex Nerd Sandra

Sandra Daugherty

Sexuality, Comedy, Health & Fitness

4.31.5K Ratings

🗓️ 25 March 2017

⏱️ 69 minutes

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Summary

FUN WITH BRAINWASHING! Meet Miss Holly, a kinky pioneer using clicker training for sexual happiness. Turns out methods used to train dogs, parrots and dolphins can help humans develop deeper, happier relationships. TOPICS: Consensual brainwashing, Chris Pratt in Jurassic World, people-pleasers, pleasure, brain chemicals, dog vs human training, Dom/sub relationship training, domestication fetish, "positive punishment" vs "positive reinforcement" vs "negative punishment" vs "negative reinforcement," sex magic, ASMR whisper tingles, triad polyamory, kinky marriage, oral sex communication, dangers, and achieving goals. PLUS training concepts like triggers, cold shaping, marks, rewards, the 3 fail rule and coming on command.

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0:00.0

Now entering Nurdist.com.

0:05.0

Hello freckydikies, it is Sex Nerd Sandra on the podcast of the same name and this week,

0:12.0

oh my goodness, are you curious do you want more

0:16.4

knowledge well this is the episode for you

0:25.0

someone who has knowledge and skills and

0:30.0

and innovation in an area that I didn't even know

0:32.0

that I didn't even know was a thing.

0:33.8

They didn't even know.

0:35.1

Totally outside the realm of what I knew to be reality.

0:40.3

And my goodness today is no exception to that wonderment.

0:45.4

Okay, so I interviewed someone named Miss Holly.

0:50.6

I mean in the episode,

0:51.7

and you'll hear about how I found her and stuff but I just wanted to make sure you know that we're about to talk about

1:00.0

though it's like how to train your dragon but for humans but we also talk about dragon

1:08.2

training and this might seem a bit off the wall, but oh my God it's fascinating.

1:16.0

Now the first half we're talking about the ideas around using clicker training for DOM sub-relationships or general relationships.

1:28.6

The second half of this episode will be focused on tangible how-tos around clicker training.

1:39.3

So just FYI, if you want to skip around. So there's that and what else? Oh so all this week I've

1:48.8

been thinking about last week's episode on Consent Yes Means yes with Jacqueline Friedman. There's a few things I just

1:56.6

need to process for a second that the concept, I mean there's so many good concepts

2:00.9

in that she provides but there's one violating your own

2:05.5

boundaries I didn't even know that was a thing but it's something that I've

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