XYBM Clips: God opened a bank account for you
Express Yourself Black Man
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🗓️ 6 May 2026
⏱️ 8 minutes
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In XYBM 155, we sit down with Marquis Hill (Real MJ Hill), a 20-year-old motivational speaker, author, and youth mental health advocate. He explains the disruptive behavior of youth as a deep need for validation and a cry to simply be heard, often rooted in his own early struggles with comparison, the pain of losing a close mentor to suicide, and the profound identity shift he experienced after a sudden heart diagnosis ended his basketball dreams.
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| 0:00.0 | Again, I'm not making no money when I'm doing this. |
| 0:02.6 | I'm going to these speaking engagements. Don't like not a dime is being paid to me. Yeah. But all of that is currency I'm paying to God to show him that this is actually something that I want to do. And it took me three years of me paying God. Three years of me paying him saying, yo, listen, this is what I want to do. Even though I'm not |
| 0:22.2 | making no money, I'm showing you, I'm waking up, I'm doing this thing. Yeah. 9 p.m. I'm up. |
| 0:27.5 | I'm doing this thing. So he sees like, okay, you're actually serious about this. So now when an opportunity |
| 0:34.1 | comes for him to bless me, he's giving me the opportunity because I spent the three years |
| 0:39.6 | and people that get stuck with the weight of the vision |
| 0:42.1 | and feel like, man, this thing ain't working, |
| 0:46.5 | people not supporting, they're not supposed to. |
| 0:48.9 | When you first start, it's supposed to feel lonely |
| 0:51.8 | and it's supposed to feel like it's not working out. |
| 0:56.2 | That is a sign that you in the right space |
| 0:57.6 | truly |
| 0:59.7 | all I can say from my experience |
| 1:02.6 | is that's the sign that you're in the right place |
| 1:04.7 | if everything ain't working |
| 1:05.8 | and nobody understands it |
| 1:07.5 | nobody's supporting you and you feel crazy |
| 1:10.0 | step one complete. |
| 1:13.7 | Literally. You're where you need to be. You exactly, bro, you exactly where you need to be. |
| 1:18.3 | That's why I started this podcast, and I love when podcasts come full circle. I started this podcast, |
| 1:22.8 | that's exactly why I started this podcast with commending you for where you are. Because I know deeply how much if, how, how it feels when you first start. |
| 1:32.3 | And I know it's not as easy as it may seem on social media. |
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