Let me ask you a question.

So I've got a friend who has been married.

I'm going to mix the details up just a little bit because I don't want him or her to be

uncomfortable.

Let's say they've been married for nine years, okay?

And you know, in any marriage you go through highs, you go through lows, you go through

highs, you go through lows, you go through seasons, but in this case they're like, man,

this is really bad.

We need to go see a therapist about this, a marital therapist, which I think is healthy,

super healthy.

Cause dude really wasn't like down with going to a therapist anyway and she kind of talked

him into it, but they're together and he's like, I committed.

I want this thing to work.

Let's go to a therapist.

So they do.

He's pleasantly surprised.

They go three different times and you know what?

It wasn't as bad as he thought it was going to be, right?

She did all the research on the therapist.

She's the one that picked it out.

He's just like, you tell me where to be?

Where to go?

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