Okay, guys, so we're going to jump into this dilemma.

And the title is, am I the asshole for taking a job that conflicted with my best friend's wedding after he refused to compromise on unreasonable demands.

So my best friend got engaged about a year ago

and asked me to be a groomsman.

I said yes immediately because that's what you do.

We've known each other since we were like in middle school

and I was genuinely excited.

Middle school?

Is he American or something?

Yeah.

Okay.

But then planning started and it got weird.

His fiance, who I've never been super close with, started making all these demands about

what groomsmen needed to do.

Custom shirts, specific haircuts, mandatory bachelor party at her chosen location,

contribution to things I never agreed to me.

The haircut one killed me.

Yeah, y'all can have your back, your side at the trip.

What's your way?

We have to have skin fade and everything.

I've got my long locks in that.

Exactly.

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