Wishes and Fears - in Couples Therapy: Dan Wile and Dorothy Kaufmann

Psychiatry & Psychotherapy Podcast

David J Puder

Science, Health & Fitness, Medicine

4.8 • 1.3K Ratings

🗓️ 17 June 2022

⏱️ 54 minutes

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Summary

In this episode of the podcast, I speak with Dorothy Kaufman, a marriage and family therapist who was married to the late Daniel Wile. We discuss the book that they both co-authored together called, Solving the Moment: A Collaborative Couple Therapy Manual. Dan is a well-known marriage and family therapist, the creator of Collaborative Couple Therapy, and spoken very highly of by Dr. Gottman.

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0:00.0	Hello and welcome to the Psychiatry and Psychothermic Podcast.
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0:34.8	All right, welcome to the podcast.
0:36.9	Before I begin, I would like to introduce, I would say, the people that are coming on.
0:42.0	Dorothy Kaufman is a marriage and family therapist who is married to Dan Wile.
0:47.3	Dan Wile is deceased.
0:48.7	He died a couple years ago, and Dorothy Kaufman was his partner, and they co-authored a
0:54.9	book together that she put together after he passed, called Solving the Moment.
1:01.2	Dan Wile has multiple other books, and is one of the most famous marriage and family
1:07.5	therapists that have lived.
1:11.0	He is someone who Dr. Gottman has spoken very, very highly of.
1:15.7	He has a really amazing method that I have found incredibly helpful, which is detailed
1:22.4	in the book, and this article I'm going to put in the show notes, talking about doubling
1:26.5	or like restating statements as I wish or I fear statements for the couple.
1:33.9	So a member will say something, and then you as a therapist, you transform what they
1:41.9	said into an I wish or I fear statement.
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