Will Your Long-Distance Relationship Work? Ask These 4 Questions...
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
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🗓️ 15 December 2020
⏱️ 7 minutes
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Summary
If you find yourself currently in a long-distance relationship – or “situationship” – then I made this for you, my loyal friend.
In it, I give you the 4 questions you should ask to figure out if it’s all worth it.
Because let’s face it, long-distance relationships are HARD. WORK. T
hey require dedication, commitment, loyalty, and a real vision for the future. Do you ever find yourself worrying if yours has what it takes? Or wondering if the person you are giving all of this mental and emotional energy to from afar is actually serious and will pay off in the end, instead of wasting your precious time? You can also check out this episode to see my “baby” brother Harry say some deeply hurtful things to me. Enjoy.
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| 0:00.0 | not all long distance relationships are a waste of time, |
| 0:02.9 | but if you are going to invest in a long distance relationship or dare I say any |
| 0:06.6 | relationship that is logistically difficult, then be aware that something that |
| 0:13.2 | is inherently very difficult requires grand measures to make it work. |
| 0:31.0 | Our long distance relationships are a waste of time. I think one of the inherent dangers that isn't |
| 0:37.6 | talked about nearly enough in long distance relationships is that it's very easy to say things |
| 0:45.0 | that are romantic, you know, I really like you, you're really special, I haven't met anyone |
| 0:49.5 | like you in a long time or forever, you and I would be so great together without paying the |
| 0:54.8 | tax for saying those things. See when someone lives next door there's like a there's an actual |
| 1:00.8 | investment tax, someone can say you're really special, oh my god you and I would be great together, |
| 1:06.1 | but if they live next door you'd go okay so why aren't we together then, you know, you don't, |
| 1:10.9 | someone would actually have to back that up. Long distance you can get away with saying all of these |
| 1:16.4 | romantic things and at the same time going but oh no you live all the way over the other side of |
| 1:23.6 | the world, I'm here, it's like a Romeo and Juliet scenario how are we going to make it work, |
| 1:29.1 | so difficult isn't it, but you're so special, I really like you. You get to say all of these |
| 1:33.6 | romantic things with complete impunity because someone couldn't reasonably expect us to do all |
| 1:39.4 | of these difficult things to make it work in the moment. We can for a very long time be in a long |
| 1:44.4 | distance relationship or situation ship or tunnel vision with a person to the exclusion of all of |
| 1:51.3 | our other options that are on our doorstep not knowing that it's ultimately going to be fruitless, |
| 1:57.2 | that when push comes to shove this person isn't going to make any sacrifices to make it work with |
| 2:02.3 | us. That begs the question how do we read someone's intentions in a long distance relationship |
| 2:08.2 | so that we have some idea of whether we might be wasting our time or not. Here's a couple of simple |
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