The Bert Show.

All right, Abby, this email here for you and your dating life might be accurate, yet maybe mistimmed

if you're still taking my challenge.

I am taking your challenge very seriously.

Last week I went out and I was trying to ignore the men, but you guys told me I need to pivot and stop ignoring the men and start focusing more on me so that way the ignoring comes more naturally.

So that's the phase of the journey that I'm in in terms of

ignoring men for the next 30 days and why are you ignoring men?

Because you said I'm desperate. I'm trying to prove to you that I'm not. There are

some things that in and in life you could want too much and people can

identify it and I think in the dating world I don't know what it is nobody has

proven it.

Fauchy has never said anything about it, so it's not science.

But there is just something about like having the attitude like I don't care

that draws people to you.

Mo agrees with that.

I do.

I think it's something with the universe. I don't know what it is either,

but it just always seems like when you are not looking, when you are not trying, when you feel like you're not in that place of your life,

the universe decides to bring the person that is for you around. And people are attracted to a certain level of confidence.

I think there's a little air of confidence there that,

because you don't want to be like completely aloof,

because that can be off-putting.

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