Let's peel his back. Like, why do you value that? Why do you dream of doing that? Or why would you change that about your life? I think there's just a lot there. And it's, what a blessing to be able to ask your spouse that.

Interesting people that I think would be intriguing to talk to. Of course, people like C.S. Lewis come to mind because he's obviously very prolific. telling, you know, what comes out of us? And so what have we been consuming? Have we been in the scriptures? Have we been consistently gathering in fellowship and worship with God's people? And have we

been in prayer together? The answers, I don't know that they should surprise us. I think they can

definitely be fun, but they can also be, we said, like, peeling back some of the layers that maybe

have solidified in like your daily life of marriage.

Cancer feels like it's always kind of like lingering somewhere. Now here's maybe a question that

would take you deeper in your marriage or relationship is what do you do with that fear?

Does it make, does it cripple you? Or as a believer, are you surrendered to God's will and are you

resting in the goodness? No one leaves here alive. We all have to face death.

That can be a scary thing. I think we're wrestling with that more and more. It's a very telling

thing to like what is your perspective on death? If you were able to live to the age of 90 and

retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would

you want?

Okay, we met when we were in high school.

Yeah.

We were teenagers.

I know this is not the story for everyone, and it's becoming more rare, from what I understand,

to meet your spouse when you're young.

What a gift.

But also, there are couples that don't meet when they're teenagers don't meet when they're young people.

But they're out there kind of searching.

I was actually lamenting with a friend.

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