Just in case you didn't know I have another show called Love and Abuse over at love and abuse.com.

It's where I help you navigate the difficult relationship.

In my opinion, relationships aren't supposed to be difficult. They have difficulties, but they shouldn't be difficult overall.

Check it out at love and abuse.com and hopefully I'll clear some things up for you.

Welcome to the overwhelmed brain where you'll learn to make decisions that are right for you so that you

can create the life you want now.

Hello, this is Paul Kolyani and I'm here to help you learn to deal with difficult people

and tackle life's challenges without compromising who you are.

This show consists of my personal opinions and is meant for informational purposes only.

Always seek a professional for your mental health and well-being.

And speaking of one of life's challenges,

I'm going to pull this up on my computer right now. This person in the Facebook group

over the Overwhelmed Brain Empowerment Group on Facebook had a question about a lie or an omission, an omission of truth, I should say, that her partner had held on to for years and that's that

he had another kid in another state And he never told her about this child that he had with

somebody else in another state years ago. So she found out and she doesn't know how to handle it because he's been holding on to this for years and

his comment to her, his reason, was that he was ashamed. He was ashamed for not being more involved

in this child's life and she said that he gave her other details to try to explain the situation,

and that he didn't know about the child until after it was born.

He's been apologizing profusely in trying to comfort her,

but she can't help feeling like crap and punched in the gut.

Her words, and they're very appropriate.

She said, let me be clear, there's no judgment on him having another child.

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