Will Non-Monogamy Fix The Dating Market? - Justin Mogilski - #699

Modern Wisdom

Chris Williamson

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

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🗓️ 28 October 2023

⏱️ 81 minutes

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Justin Mogilski is an an evolutionary psychologist at the University of South Carolina whose research focuses on consensual non-monogamous relationships. It’s often said that choosing the right life partner is the most important decision you can make. So if you're not sure, why not just choose two? Or more? And how do the people in these relationships make it work? Expect to learn whether non-monogamy is more likely to end in failure than typical relationships, what sorts of people are most likely to be non-monogamous, why the public so heavily condemns you dating multiple people, how you can better manage sexual jealousy, what the best predictors of relationship satisfaction are and much more... Sponsors: Get $150 discount on Plunge’s amazing sauna or cold plunge at https://plunge.com (use code MW150) Get a Free Sample Pack of all LMNT Flavours with your first box at https://www.drinklmnt.com/modernwisdom (automatically applied at checkout) Timestamps: (00:00) Increase of Consensual Non-Monogamy (08:33) The Huge Role of Jealousy in Non-Monogamy (13:05) Personality Profiles of Non-Monogamous People (16:59) Most Common Non-Monogamy Practices (27:01) Importance of Exclusivity Agreements (29:37) Disclose Attraction Instead of Hiding It (35:31) Regulating Sexual Jealousy (45:41) Sharing New Partner With Current Partner (51:34) Non-Monogamy’s Branding Problem (1:05:23) Is Ancestral Polygamy a Myth? (1:15:40) Where to Find Justin Extra Stuff: Get my free Reading List of 100 books to read before you die → https://chriswillx.com/books/ To support me on Patreon (thank you): https://www.patreon.com/modernwisdom Episodes You Might Enjoy: This Is How To Master Your Life - David Goggins - #577: ⁠⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Goggins⁠⁠⁠ How To Destroy Your Negative Beliefs - Dr Jordan Peterson - #712: ⁠⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Peterson⁠⁠⁠ The Secret Tools To Hack Your Brain - Dr Andrew Huberman - #700: ⁠⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Huberman⁠⁠ - Get in touch. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Hello friends, welcome back to the show.
0:02.8	My guest today is Justin Mogilski, he's an evolutionary psychologist at the University
0:07.1	of South Carolina whose research focuses on consensual non-monogamous relationships.
0:12.0	It's often said that choosing the right life partner is the most important decision that
0:16.5	you can make.
0:17.5	So, if you're not sure, why not just choose two or more?
0:21.9	And how did the people in these relationships actually make it work?
0:26.0	Take to learn whether non-monogamy is more likely to end in failure than typical relationships.
0:31.4	What sort of people are most likely to be non-monogamous?
0:34.4	Why the public so heavily condemns you dating multiple people?
0:38.4	How you can better manage sexual jealousy?
0:40.8	What the best predictors of relationship satisfaction are?
0:44.5	And much more.
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