"Why You're Misunderstood" with Charles Duhigg
Uncomfortable Conversations with Josh Szeps
Josh Szeps
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🗓️ 25 March 2024
⏱️ 50 minutes
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Summary
Do you ever feel apprehensive about speaking up? Are you ever misunderstood? Do you ever find other people evasive, or abrasive?
The Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist Charles Duhigg caused a splash 12 years ago with his research into the formation of habits and his book "The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do in Life." Now, he's studied super communicators to discover why you're misunderstood, and what you can do better. His new book is "Supercommunicators: How to Unlock the Secret Language of Connection".
Here, Charles and Josh misunderstand each other... in instructive ways.
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| 0:00.0 | Gahy humans. Welcome to the safe space for dangerous ideas. Do you ever have a conversation |
| 0:07.1 | where you realize that the person you're talking to is really just not quite understanding |
| 0:12.7 | where you're coming from and vice versa. It can be increasingly difficult to have conversations, |
| 0:19.0 | especially about sensitive issues in these toxic and |
| 0:22.9 | divisive times. Today's guest is an expert on that. His new book is called Super Communicators, |
| 0:29.4 | How to Unlock the Secret Language of Connection. Charles Duhigg is an American journalist, a nonfiction |
| 0:35.5 | author. He's a winner of the Pulitzer Prize, you know, |
| 0:38.7 | that little nod for the work that he did at the New York Times. And his previous book was also |
| 0:44.8 | fascinating. We get into that a little bit as well. It's called The Power of Habit. He's sort of |
| 0:48.9 | a world authority on the psychology of how we form habits, how we break habits, how they can be constructive, |
| 0:55.7 | how they can be destructive. |
| 0:57.5 | And the focus of his latest book is what great communicators have in common and how you can |
| 1:02.3 | improve your own communication as well. |
| 1:04.6 | Please enjoy. |
| 1:05.3 | As much as I did, the one and only, Charles Duhigg. |
| 1:09.6 | But while we're talking about Substack, so are you on Substack or do you know those guys? I am. Yeah, yeah. So I have a, I have a newsletter on substack. That newsletter is the substack thing, is it? Yeah. Yeah. And I just started it about six months ago. So I'm not really, I'm not really like a pro the way that some people. |
| 1:27.6 | Yeah, well. But I like it. I like doing it. I know. It's fabulous. I mean, there's so much potential. And I've got buddies who are making a fortune from it. So who knows? Yeah. And I, exactly. And I am a big, anything that helps writers support themselves. I'm a huge fan. Yes. I mean, the fact that it is now actually possible. |
| 1:26.0 | I hosted a talkback radio show in |
| 1:48.6 | Sydney for the past two years and was able to leave at the end of last year and just do this. |
| 1:53.9 | Largely, you know, because half of the revenue comes from substack and about half from ads. |
| 1:58.9 | Oh, so you already have a big substack. Well, big enough, big enough. Yeah. Yeah. So can I ask, like, how many, I'm just wondering, like, at what point it becomes, like, how many subscribers? That's a very good question that my producer would know the answer to, which I don't. I just count the money, Charles. |
| 2:17.8 | Yeah, no, I mean, I don't know. I'm still at the early stages. I've only been on there for like six months, but it seems to be, I had, this podcast has a lot of listeners. So you don't need a huge conversion rate for a large, for a large listener base to then go, oh, we'll get the extra stuff as well, because I do some bonus stuff |
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