Why You Keep Attracting the Wrong Relationship | Jim Curtis
The School of Greatness
Lewis Howes
4.8 • 22K Ratings
🗓️ 15 December 2025
⏱️ 79 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Why do we have this underlying belief that something is not okay with us? |
| 0:04.9 | Why do you think most human beings have this? |
| 0:07.2 | We are programmed by the instances that happen in our life. |
| 0:11.0 | In my case, I had a father that was abusive. |
| 0:14.3 | When he would explode, I thought it was my fault. |
| 0:16.7 | And then we just protected against that as we grew. |
| 0:19.3 | So it became the program. |
| 0:20.8 | And we have to unravel that program. |
| 0:22.4 | Author, speaker, hypnotist, a transformational coach, and a wellness pioneer. |
| 0:26.3 | Jim's mission has been to change the health and wellness of the world. |
| 0:29.6 | I am sitting here with Jim Curtis, y'all. |
| 0:32.3 | Our identity is our reality. |
| 0:34.3 | So the I am, I am smart, I am successful, I am grateful is much different than |
| 0:39.3 | I am stuck. I'm not good at this. What you tell your subconscious mind is waiting for directions. |
| 0:44.3 | The more that you say I am, the more your subconscious mind believes that that's your identity |
| 0:49.3 | and your identity creates your reality. We get caught in the cage, we get caught in the illusion that this is all real. |
| 0:56.0 | The reality is that our identity is creating our reality and our programs and beliefs are |
| 1:00.5 | creating our reality so that we get caught in the movie. The truth is that we're the director |
| 1:05.1 | that we can say, okay, I'm going to change this movie. And then to take massive action to do it |
| 1:09.0 | so that it shifts the time, it shifts the |
| 1:10.9 | energy. Why do you think people struggle so much with accepting themselves about who they are, |
| 1:16.8 | where they're at in their life? Because I feel like that's one of the biggest things that holds |
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