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Why writing a will and planning for your death is a 'lifetime gift' to loved ones

Life Kit

NPR

Education, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Business, Kids & Family

4.54.9K Ratings

🗓️ 30 June 2020

⏱️ 21 minutes

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Summary

Talking about death makes many of us uncomfortable, so we don't plan for it. But the reality is that even a small amount of planning ensures our final wishes are honored — and makes it easier on our family and friends. This episode will help you get started on making a will and an advance directive, even if you don't have a big estate.

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0:00.0

I'm Kavita Kadoza.

0:05.8

On this episode of NPR's Life Kit, we're going to focus on planning for the end of your

0:10.4

life.

0:11.4

I know, I know, it's not the most churritopic, but I promise by the end of this episode

0:16.5

you'll see why it's so important.

0:19.3

And if thinking about death or talking to someone about dying makes you uncomfortable,

0:24.0

you're not alone.

0:30.0

Hi Angel.

0:32.0

Hi Kavita.

0:34.0

I don't know what feels more awkward actually having dinner over Zoom or the conversation

0:45.4

about death.

0:48.4

What part feels awkward about the conversation is it just the uncertainty?

0:54.4

It feels a little morbid, uncomfortable.

0:57.4

I don't know, to a really bad pattern, but unpalatable.

1:05.1

Long silences, nervous laughter, I'm embarrassed by how awkward I've seen.

1:10.6

But Angel Grant is used to people squirming when talking about the end of life.

1:15.0

That's exactly why she co-founded the project, Death Over Dinner.

1:18.5

The dinner table is a very forgiving place for conversation.

1:22.7

You're breaking bread together and there's this warmth and connection.

1:30.0

Every dinner starts by lighting a candle and blazing a glass to someone who's died.

1:34.2

Would you like to go first?

1:36.2

I would want to raise a glass to my dad.

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