Why Would Any Man Choose To Be Cucked? - Dr David Ley - #588

Modern Wisdom

Chris Williamson

Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.6 • 5.9K Ratings

🗓️ 11 February 2023

⏱️ 63 minutes

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Dr David Ley is a clinical psychologist and a board member of the Sexual Health Alliance whose research focuses on issues related to sexuality, pornography and mental health. Your partner being intimate with another guy should evolutionarily be one of the biggest fears of a man's life. Actually encouraging this behaviour seems almost unthinkable, and yet cucking is becoming a much more common pursuit and one of the most popular categories of online porn. Expect to learn the stats around how common cuckolding actually is, whether cuckolding could cover up a husband's desire to be with another man, how often this goes wrong and destroys a relationship, whether sex addiction is an actual thing, some surprising research around porn addiction, how religiosity predicts dysfunction with porn and much more... Sponsors: Get 15% discount on Mud/Wtr at http://mudwtr.com/modernwisdom (use code MODERNWISDOM) Get 20% discount on House Of Macadamias’ nuts at https://houseofmacadamias.com/modernwisdom (use code MW20) Timestamps: (00:00) Intro (00:26) Why Dr Ley Studied Cuckolding (04:23) How is it Possible for Men to Find Pleasure from Cuckolding? (15:13) Is Cuckolding Repressed Homosexuality? (22:17) The Weird Dynamics of Female Cuckolding (29:00) Wider Implications of Cuckolding & Porn Use on Society (34:24) How Should Children Be Taught About Sexuality? (42:31) Role of Shame in Men’s Relationship with Porn (49:10) How Porn Use Impacts Motivation to Find a Mate (53:43) Advice for People Who Want to Improve their Relationship with Porn (58:18) Where to Find Dr Ley Extra Stuff: Check out Dr Ley's website - https://www.davidleyphd.com/ Follow Dr Ley on Twitter - https://twitter.com/DrDavidLey Get my free Reading List of 100 books to read before you die → https://chriswillx.com/books/ To support me on Patreon (thank you): https://www.patreon.com/modernwisdom - Episodes You Might Enjoy: This Is How To Master Your Life - David Goggins - #577: ⁠⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Goggins⁠⁠⁠ How To Destroy Your Negative Beliefs - Dr Jordan Peterson - #712: ⁠⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Peterson⁠⁠⁠ The Secret Tools To Hack Your Brain - Dr Andrew Huberman - #700: ⁠⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Huberman⁠⁠ - Get in touch. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Hello friends, welcome back to the show.
0:03.2	My guest today is Dr. David Lay, a clinical psychologist and a board member of the sexual
0:08.0	health alliance whose research focuses on issues relating to sexuality, pornography, and mental
0:13.5	health.
0:14.5	Your partner, being intimate with another guy, should evolutionarily be one of the biggest
0:19.3	fears in a man's life.
0:21.2	Actually, encouraging this behaviour seems almost unthinkable, and yet, cooking is becoming
0:26.8	a much more common pursuit, and one of the most popular categories of online porn.
0:32.2	Expect to learn the stats around how common cook-holding actually is, whether cook-holding
0:36.4	could cover up a husband's desire to be with another man, how often this goes wrong and
0:40.5	destroys a relationship, whether sex addiction is an actual thing, some surprising research
0:46.2	around porn addiction, how religiosity predicts dysfunction with porn, and much more.
0:53.5	This is an area of research which, perhaps unsurprisingly, is not massively delved into,
0:59.6	so Dr. David Lay gets to own almost an entire category here as being one of the number
1:04.5	one pro-porn and cooking researchers on the planet.
1:09.1	But it is very interesting, and despite me not being able to perhaps put myself into
1:13.9	the mindset of this, the explanation at least begins to illuminate what might be going
1:20.1	on at the moment.
1:21.8	This is very, very interesting.
1:24.1	Enjoy.
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