When you are pioneering anything or introducing new ideas to the culture, you get criticized.

You do?

Yeah. Did you hear about that?

I didn't find the one. I found someone I respected and we made it the one.

In a sort of longing kind of view of love, people understand each other as if by magic.

Nothing in itself is addictive on one hand. And in the hand, everything could be addictive if

there's an emptiness in that person that needs to be filled. I now know that nobody changes

until they change their energy. And when you change your energy, you change your life.

I'm Gwyneth Peltro. This is the Goop Podcast, bringing together thought leaders, culture

changers, creatives, founders and CEOs, scientists, doctors, healers and seekers. Here to start

conversations, because simply asking questions and listening has the power

to change the way we see the world.

Here we go.

Welcome back to the Goop podcast. Today we're talking about something that so many couples

experience, but don't always know how to talk about, why we're not having as much sex as we want

or thought we would and what we can do about it. Sex can be one of the biggest sources of

frustration and relationships, yet it is often left unspoken. Many couples assume there's something

wrong if their sex life isn't what they expected, but the truth is

this is one of the most common challenges in long-term relationships. Vanessa and Zander Marin have

spent years helping couples understand why intimacy fades and more importantly, how to bring it back.

Vanessa is a licensed sex therapist with two decades of experience,

and Sandra, her husband, and a self-proclaimed regular guy, helps make these conversations

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