Why Narcissists Cannot Pull Out Of Their Narcissism
Surviving Narcissism with Dr. Les Carter
Dr. Les Carter
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🗓️ 4 October 2022
⏱️ 31 minutes
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Summary
When you have an ongoing relationship with a person who is persistently narcissistic, it is only natural that you'd want to confront that individual with the hope that healthy adjustments can be made. But instead of engaging in a constructive conversation, narcissists will predictably double down on their dysfunction and will refuse to receive input. In this episode, Dr. Les Carter identifies the lead ingredient that inhibits narcissists from growing, and describes all sorts of other patterns associated with that one ingredient. Your task is to be aware of what you are up against so you can remain steady in the midst of their unsteadiness.
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| 1:02.2 | welcome to this week's episode of the surviving narcissism podcastissism podcast. I'm Michelle, the program director, |
| 1:14.0 | and I would like to start this episode with a quick introduction. For those for you not familiar |
| 1:18.6 | with surviving narcissism, it is the product of many years of work done by Dr. Les Carter. |
| 1:24.0 | Dr. Carter is a best-selling author and therapist with more than 40 years of experience |
| 1:28.3 | specializing in anger management and narcissistic personality disorder. |
| 1:33.3 | This week, Dr. C's topic is why narcissists cannot pull out of their narcissism. |
| 1:39.3 | Hello, Team Healthy. I'm so glad to be here with you with another episode of our surviving narcissism podcast. |
| 1:52.4 | I have a very interesting topic here that I want to discuss with you. |
| 1:56.5 | And this is going to be one where I can almost guarantee virtually every one of you has struggled with this particular question. |
| 2:02.9 | And that is we're going to go into the question, why can narcissists not pull out of their narcissism? |
| 2:10.7 | What is it about them that keeps them so stuck in the ways that they frustrate you and how inappropriate they are. And to you, their impropriety |
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